HELP - please -men and women- advice from experience

Please read everyone and tell me what you think! thanks!


i wrote about a man that refuses to plan ahead at all. i talked to him about it nicely for a compromise.thinking we could talk and come to a decision to make us both happy. she said men that make plans ahead or just whipped or a sissy. he told me i asked you to go to a wedding ahead of time. he said you should take that as a compliment bc i wont take just anybody. some women wouldnt deserve to go with me. is he is just fool of hisself? he is 31 and i dont think anyone should be talking that way? what do you think?





HELP - please -men and women- advice from experience
He is irresponsible, inconsiderate, and a bragger. I don't know what ';fool of hisself'; means, but I do think he is the kind of person I would dislike. I hope you don't like him! I also hope you don't think you can use reason and compromise with someone like this.HELP - please -men and women- advice from experience
Planning ahead for anything is always a good thing. In relationships and marriage things come up you cannot plan for. Face it. You are bringing together two distinct personalities with each of them with their own habits,plans for their own life etc.. All of this should be considered . You must agree or make allowances for each other. If before the wedding takes place you cannot come to an understanding about an issue that either of you may be passionate about; then you may consider if a wedding should take place at all.
You answered your own question. He is full of himself.
you're right! sounds like he's too into himself!
i think u just answered your question. moving on...