Any advice men? Is he genuine?

i am in a dead end relationship that has been on the rocks for about a year, we split up for 5m last year %26amp; got back together to try again but its only got worse. Thn October last year i met a man in the place i work who i assumed was a bit of a player but i was really attracted to him and we got on great. He spent 2months tryin 2get my number even tho he new i had a bf %26amp; i gave in n we started txtin/talking/seeing eachother all the time.Daily.The chemistry is amazing, we have the same tastes, we're comfortable around eachother. He has opened up to me about his past, i've met his mates %26amp; he wants me to meet his sis.I think we both thought it was just harmless fun in the beginning but we've both developed strong feelings for eachother even though we've just been 'dating' since November and haven't slept together and he say's he is prepared to wait as long as it takes. Last week he told me he was fallin in love with me and since then has become much more bothered by the fact i have a bfAny advice men? Is he genuine?
I would come out and have a direct talk with this new guy and tell him exactly what your concerns are. And if he really is willing to wait is he willing then to get a place for you to move in with him, is he willing to get you an engagement ring... I would ask those hard questions before ending your marriage not matter at what state that marriage is inAny advice men? Is he genuine?
A player obviously knows how to charm women, otherwise how can he be a player?





If you really want him THAT badly, go for it. Even if you ended up getting conned, it's not so bad. It's not as if you'll lose a pound of flesh
There is no way to know for certain if he is genuine, but if he wants you to break up with your boyfriend you at least know that he wants you 24/7 and not just for some side lovin' with no strings.





(Unless the only way he can get any lovin' is when you are without your old guy, then it could be an elaborate game, especially if he has other females taking care of him while he waits for U)





With this guy, though, understand you are not just dating him. He has a little solar system of people around him like and ex wive, kids, ex-grandparents, etc that are going to be part of the equation, no matter what.





If you do not mind his extra luggage, give it a shot.





In reality, though, you have decided to jump for the first bloke that popped up with a wink and a smile, that looked better than the winner you had.





Might want to look around a bit and see what other men are out there.
He sounds like a winner to me, if he was a player he would have already moved on because you have not given him sex. It's time to dump your ex and move on to greener pastures. I met my wife at work and we were both in loveless marriages at the time. So give this relationship a try. Good luck