men advice: 2010

Friday, April 30, 2010

I need some serious advice.. Men speak Up!! lol?

I have been on this site for days, no one will answer my ?

Cant seem to let go? Did he move on?

Ok , so this would have been the last thing that i would have ever thought of doing.. Discussing my issues with strangers or online.lol. Need serious advice though..Friends, proffesionals, time and even meditations are not working!! Heres the story.. I make it quick, I dated this guy for about 3 years now, fell madly in love as we both were , but from the beginning things started gettin rocky. I am a model, college grad, lots of friends, and he made me stop all of that because he said i was too friendly. I sacrifised everything for him. Then things became physical, very pyshical and we kept breaking up on and off but he'd call me every other week n we would still see n be intimate. I recently moved wanting a new start 6 months ago but let him back in. In my new apt 4 months ago he decided to get pyshical again n i called the police. Long story short, we couldnt see each other till court, he promised if i dropped everything which i did he'd work us out again. After court was over, and everything went in his favor becuase of me, he only called me once for sex. I told him please call for lunch or dinner not a booty call. I havent heard from him in 2 months now, last he said was please move on, we are not compatible, and i need to let u go. I cant move on though, i cant focus at work or be thankful for anything good i have, nothing is helping. Has he met someone new? Will he miss me? What is going on. I took him back after all his abuse. Im a beautfiul young indepent women.. What should I do.. He also stated in our last conversation when i told him ive been waiting all summer after court for him n not even met anyone that i was a liar and probably out doing me and dating. I feel like he doesnt even know me. I have been faithful from day 1 even now 2 months later.. What do i do to move onor get him back??I need some serious advice.. Men speak Up!! lol?
Ok ... I'm speaking up ... so listen up..

Yes he will miss you .. and the great sex you both enjoyed....

No .. you shouldn't let him back in to your life .. he has control and jealousy issues ... (that's why he had you break your ties) ....

Find a guy who has a bit more life experience, who knows how to treat a lady.... a person who is really into you ... not just for sex, but really wants you to finish your education, be social, be you friend and lover.

They are out there ... not all fall from the GQ Cover .... never judge the content by the wrapper.

Good Luck, I hope you find a real man and not another boy pretender.I need some serious advice.. Men speak Up!! lol?
There are all kinds of books out there on abuse. Something is going on with you that you are willing to subject yourself to abuse.

Even pretty girls have self esteem issues. Do some reading, get some help. BEFORE you get hurt.
You need to seriously move on. If you cannot see the cycle by now, I'm afraid you never will. Either get enough guts/smarts to move on now or be doomed to repeat this all over time and time again until something catastrophic happens.

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Ex boyfriend advice- MEN ages 30-40 HELP ME!!!?

I need some serious advice and insight-

My ex and I have been having fights lately. His father has stage 4 lung cancer and it's gotten progressively worse. J, my boyfriend, is in a state of despression, self-reflection (he has some issues within himself he wants to work out), and intense stress. We have ';broken up'; but, we talk every day and after we have huge blow-outs...we admit that we love and care for each other. We also continue to express that we miss each other and feel like we have lost our best friend. We are in contact constantly and care about what's going on in the others lives.

WHAT IS GOING ON???

Is this person keeping me in his life because he loves me and wants us to work out? Do you think he feels weak as a man right now and just needs time to sort his **** out before he can try and focus on our relationship again? This is a good man, who is 38- not looking to play games and waste time. We are both staying faithful to the other eventhough we are not technically ';together';. How do I interpret his love and continuing to reach out and engage in my life? Does he just need time to get strong again and get a grip on his issues and dealing with his father dying?

We wanted to get married and have a family. Something we were very open and honest about. Should I hold onto faith that this will work itself out since there is so much love? Should I give him space to resolve his stress and issues and trust he will come back since he hasn't really done anything to PROVE that he wants to lose me?

Thanks!

TEx boyfriend advice- MEN ages 30-40 HELP ME!!!?
Dear Mookie 41,

I posed this question to my 44 year old male friend. If your boyfriend's father is dying, the absolute best thing you can do is give him space.

There are a great deal of emotional issues (especially with men) that need to be brought to closure before the departure of the loved one. Without satisfying this to any degree, any other relationship you hope to rekindle with him is doomed.

It may not be what you want to hear at this time, but it is the absolute truth.

The next time you talk to your beau, ask him about his favorite memory with his father. When he shares it, ask him if he has ever shared that story with his own father.

It is the most selfless thing you can do for him -- and you will be the one he will show gratitude to down the road for helping him deal with one of the toughest times in his life.

This is for those in the US Army.especially married service men/women..Advice?

Ok.

I am from Australia. Soon, i will be filing for an adjustment of status to US resident..then of course..the waiting game..the.. i will have my greencard.

My wife and i have been talking and i was thinking of joining the Army after i receive residency status. Most of my life i spent driving forklifts and working in a storage environment.

What are your experiences with the US Army? Would there be..say..room for people like me?This is for those in the US Army.especially married service men/women..Advice?
There's room for anyone in good shape. I was in recently but was medically discharged before I could go to Iraq unfortunately.

First of all, when you talk to the recruiter, ask him about something called the ';trail blazer'; during basic training. They change the name occasionally. It basically involves being able to max out the AIT PT test at day 1. You want to do that.

Since you're married, you'll probably want to get a non-combat MOS. (Although I took a combat MOS because I'm married) Try for something along the lines of supply clerk, mechanic, or something of the like. Don't worry if you aren't trained, they'll teach you everything. Mortician is a messy and unpleasant job, but if you can handle, it usually has a great signing bonus. DO NOT GO 88M! Those are truck drivers. They have the highest mortality rate in Iraq and they need everyone they can get. It sound good and easy, but it's not cool.

Signing bonuses are paid after AIT, as much as 6 months later depending on the MOS. Married people should stay away from counter intelligence since that could keep you away 10 months out of the year, but it's my number one suggestion for single people.

Just so you know, Basic Training is all about messing with your mind. When you get on base, just turn your personality off for about 3 or 4 months.

Injuries in the Army. The Army is mean on this one. If you get injured during anytime you get handed your orders and taken to the airport and the end of AIT, THEY WILL TRY to pass it off as a prior injury, no matter how stupid. I saw guys getting general discharge on collapsed arches. Not a pleasant thing, but I did see an honorable on a hernia.

Well, the first few months are hell, after that, it's sweet. It's good job, you're taken care of, and if you learn well, you have plenty of potential. If you go to Iraq, you can still get free college there. And you should take every opportunity for college credits possible. A degree means eligibility for officer training and a good position in the army.

And finally, make sure you fill out the paper work correctly. Take your time, especially when calculating income. Being married, I made more than the lieutenant as a PVT.

It's a good life, but it is the Army and the Army is about war. For some reason a bunch of kids these days forget that when they sign the papers. They think about travel and college and easy money and forget that it's about fighting.

Well, I encourage it and wish you luck.This is for those in the US Army.especially married service men/women..Advice?
if you are young guy yes.
i am in the army now

if you join, keep in mind you WILL deploy, and you will be seperated from your family.......

there are benifits though, you AND your family get really good health care the pay is a little light but they make up for it in housing alowence, and other benifits.

as far as ';some one like you'; joining, i used to work in a whare house, a lumber mill and a whole slew of factories as a laborer, mindless work.

now i'm trained in a job which i use my brain about 95% more than my brawn .

you can join, study for the ASVAB test it is what they use to see what you are qualafied for.
Do everything legally, and you'll do just fine. I know several people who have come from Africa, Asia, South America, and Europe and went right into the U.S. military. It's a great thing that our country does by making it easy to serve, and you're rewarded very well. It makes getting your citizenship a bit smoother, as well.

Keep in mind, though, that there's a war. Chances are that you'll be going to Iraq, *especially* if you become a medic or something along those lines. Well, you're looking at the Army. No matter what you decide to do, you'll probably end up in Iraq. Of course, if you support the war, you may be willing to go...but many people I know don't and they dislike it. That, and you'll be seperated from family and home.

Then again, there are so many benefits. I've literally seen the world thanks to the Air Force, and I couldn't ask for more.

If it's your dream, don't let Iraq stand in the way.
My experience is with the US Air Force, 22 years active and currently retired.

I can't recall any assignment, or any base where a good material handler wasn't a valuable commodity. If you are looking for something else, just talk with recruiter.

Good Luck
The prospects for enlistment are very good... Contact an Army recruiter and talk (YOU DONT HAVE TO SIGN UP THEN) and see what your options are.
I have been in the military and it was probably the best thing I ever did for myself. No matter your qualifications they will train you to do something.

Good luck and I think it's a good idea.
I agree with Charlie. You probably will be deployed. Try something medical. X-ray tech, lab tech, medic: something that can be used on the outside. I was in the military for 7 years. It was a good experience, but I was single at the time. good luck
I was think you might be too old. I thought they limit was twenty seven, but its more like 34-35 and now there is talk about raising to 42.
There's plenty of room in the army. The age limit is currently 40, and you can get an accelerated citizenship.
WELL AS LONG AS YOU ARE A LEGAL CITIZEN YOU SHOULD BE FINE. I AM NOT IN THE ARMY BUT I AM IN THE AIR FORCE. NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO OR DON'T HOW TO DO THEY WILL TRAIN YOU FOR YOUR JOB. BUT KNOWING HOW TO DRIVE A FORKLIFT MAY HELP A LITTLE. I WISH YOU GOOD LUCK BECAUSE WE NEED MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT ARE WILLING TO JOIN THE SERVICE OUT OF FREE WILL AND I THINK YOU WILL LIKE IT.

Men.. sex advice please. as many answers as possible!?

when having sex or going down on a man should you slow down, stop, go faster, stay at the same pace ect.. when he c*ms? i never really no what to do at that point and when your with someone who doesnt comunicate that well it can be a little tricky.. any tips advice welcome. thanks! and i would rather not have advice like get him to comunicate..Men.. sex advice please. as many answers as possible!?
For sex:

My guy normally pulls out when he cums. But we have gone after he does, and when I'm on top, I go kinda fast and hard. But when hes on top and he cums, he goes a little slower because he doesn't want the condom to break.Men.. sex advice please. as many answers as possible!?
When he finishes, it is usually best to slow down to give him a chance to recharge. It is best if you could get him to communicate, but if he will not, then I would just slow down once you know that he is completely done.

Even though he may tell you fast is better, you may find that going slow is still better if you do go slow the whole time. He may not admit it right off the bat though.

You just need to go with the flow, but when he is done, go slow, and see if you can get him to go again. He should be more than happy to take care of you though also.
put it in as deep as you can, move your tongue alot...alot of suction but makes sure you ease up as it subsides...or youll make him jump....swallow, or take it on your face...(dead serious)
Sorry I'm a girl, but I can tell you that my hubby likes a combo of slow, fast, teasing, etc.
Read his body language! Tune in to it and you will be able to tell what he likes.

Men, your advice please?

During a girl's first time, is there anything she can do to make it easier for both people, especially if the guy is already experienced? Any tips are appreciated.

Thank you.Men, your advice please?
make sure hes gonna stop if u want him to it can hurt sometimes.. however it might not.. you also need to be sure if ur uncomfortable with it that he will stop.. you need to give him lots of notice not two seconds b4 he comes..

good luck =)Men, your advice please?
i'm a virgin.. but all in all i know that you should be honest about how you feel throughout process and definitely use protection
make sure he is the right one. How old are you?
be honest and say if it hurts and just let the guy lead if he has experiance you should be ok with him leading
Take your time over it and don't do it if your not ready to. If he's already had experience then he'll know what he's doing so to a certain extent you can let him lead but don't just leave him hold him and ake sure he's appreciated so affection is always good. If it hurts then tell him don't be afraid of that make sure he's aware it's your first time and it shouldn't be rushed, that may cause pain just let him do it slowly and you'll be fine. Most of all enjoy it!

Any advice men? Is he genuine?

i am in a dead end relationship that has been on the rocks for about a year, we split up for 5m last year %26amp; got back together to try again but its only got worse. Thn October last year i met a man in the place i work who i assumed was a bit of a player but i was really attracted to him and we got on great. He spent 2months tryin 2get my number even tho he new i had a bf %26amp; i gave in n we started txtin/talking/seeing eachother all the time.Daily.The chemistry is amazing, we have the same tastes, we're comfortable around eachother. He has opened up to me about his past, i've met his mates %26amp; he wants me to meet his sis.I think we both thought it was just harmless fun in the beginning but we've both developed strong feelings for eachother even though we've just been 'dating' since November and haven't slept together and he say's he is prepared to wait as long as it takes. Last week he told me he was fallin in love with me and since then has become much more bothered by the fact i have a bfAny advice men? Is he genuine?
I would come out and have a direct talk with this new guy and tell him exactly what your concerns are. And if he really is willing to wait is he willing then to get a place for you to move in with him, is he willing to get you an engagement ring... I would ask those hard questions before ending your marriage not matter at what state that marriage is inAny advice men? Is he genuine?
A player obviously knows how to charm women, otherwise how can he be a player?

If you really want him THAT badly, go for it. Even if you ended up getting conned, it's not so bad. It's not as if you'll lose a pound of flesh
There is no way to know for certain if he is genuine, but if he wants you to break up with your boyfriend you at least know that he wants you 24/7 and not just for some side lovin' with no strings.

(Unless the only way he can get any lovin' is when you are without your old guy, then it could be an elaborate game, especially if he has other females taking care of him while he waits for U)

With this guy, though, understand you are not just dating him. He has a little solar system of people around him like and ex wive, kids, ex-grandparents, etc that are going to be part of the equation, no matter what.

If you do not mind his extra luggage, give it a shot.

In reality, though, you have decided to jump for the first bloke that popped up with a wink and a smile, that looked better than the winner you had.

Might want to look around a bit and see what other men are out there.
He sounds like a winner to me, if he was a player he would have already moved on because you have not given him sex. It's time to dump your ex and move on to greener pastures. I met my wife at work and we were both in loveless marriages at the time. So give this relationship a try. Good luck

Meeting men -- eye contact advice for a shy girl?

ok. i am 34, single and attractive.. BUT i am SHY. i've decided that having better eye contact will increase my chances of meeting men. so... how do i practice eye contact when i've spent my entire life NOT looking at strangers? (i've done very well with practicing ALOOF and MYSTERIOUS!).

even when i'm walking down the street, i should be making eye contact with cute men. any TIPS for a shy girl on how to do this -- when it terrifies me? thanks...Meeting men -- eye contact advice for a shy girl?
Well if you really want to look someone in the eye, you should. Break out of your shell and take some kind of chance. It'll feel weird, but it'll get better, and you'll be more used to it the more and more you do it. Try small things at first. When you go to the store, look people in the eyes that're shopping just like you are. You'll eventually get over your fear.

:)

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I'm a newbie when it comes to being a sales man...any advice from those who are experienced?

I was laid off from my previous occupation which was a graphic designer. I decided to take a different path working inside sales for cell phones.. I'm good and always felt I was a natural at sales, but I want to only improve.. For those who have been in sales for a while please give me tips on your success..!!!! PLEASE!I'm a newbie when it comes to being a sales man...any advice from those who are experienced?
read as much as you can

anything by Gitomer is great

For inside sales I think John Lawhon's book Selling Retail volume 1 and 2 is fantastic. It's geared around furniture, but you could learn a lot from it.I'm a newbie when it comes to being a sales man...any advice from those who are experienced?
I agree with the second answer but I must add you will probably find that your customers most likely know what they want already and are just shopping for the best price. You can buy cell phones everywhere.

I do have one thought that has nothing to do with your question. Read my profile and if interested contact me.
Never argue with a customer.

( on a side note, if you love graphic designing, keep your hand in it, we need more artists^_^)

by the way, check this place out:

http://www.cgsociety.org/
Be honest, sincere and believe in what your'e selling.
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salespower.com

salesresources.com

zigziglar.com
Well...this site could help you...

http://www.availablesalesjob.com/

Does anyone know a shop that sells tights for men? Or will happily offer size advice for a man?

Ideally in or around London! I have tried M %26amp; S but they just run a mile or ignore me when I ask.Does anyone know a shop that sells tights for men? Or will happily offer size advice for a man?
Tesco, ASDA, Morrisons, John Lewis, Boots, Super Drug, TK-Maxx, Somerfeild.

Why are you asking in the shop ? Just look on the packets for the size you want. I am 6Ft.2 tall, and I wear an ASDA M/L John Lewis XL, Sommerfield L/XL All the packets have the size on.

There's no special tights made for men, the reason the shop assistanst leg it is, by asking, you're making yourself look a bit creepy (like you want to talk to them about it to gratify yourself). No offence meant... Please don't take any.

Also.... Silkies do hosiery by mail order, and eBay.... Ohhhh eBay !!!!Does anyone know a shop that sells tights for men? Or will happily offer size advice for a man?
Try ballet suppliers, fancy dress shops or shops for the bigger lady perhaps
What's the problem?

Usually one size fits all

Are you an unusual size or something?
might sound stupid but ask in a fancy dress shop. lol

or try using long johns,

or try looking on ebay.
The only one I know is 'Fredericks of Hollywood' but in the UK you have to buy online. You could try contacting them via email for advice though xx
try your local costume store maybe..is this for drag?
One size fits all never fits me. Try a ballet/dance shop, they always had my size when I used to dance.
there are some shops in covent garden but you cen buy them at ';Porselli'; on the internet and they have a shop just off Charring Cross Road, and ';Dancier'; in Drury Lane near where it joins the London Road , near the New London Theater in Covent Garden. these are for dancers or theatrical tights.

not going to ask why you want them!
Hi, I don't know if the store Long Tall Sally still exists, but if it does, you might find tights designed for taller people fit you better.
Any type will fit the male body .... Just buy woman's tights /stockings .etc..... No shop will turn down your cash ..DON'T tell them they are for you ..... just pick them up ...go to the till ....pay YOUR MONEY ... and walk out.....God iv brought 1000's over many years.... Plus many more fem items ....skits / dresses / underwear..etc..... Just be yourself next time....Don't tell them what they don't need to know...

Good luck

kim

xx
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Capricorn men...what advice for a Libra woman on dating a ';Sea Goat';?

what the heck is a seagoat? Date one like you would any other sign.

HELP - please -men and women- advice from experience

Please read everyone and tell me what you think! thanks!

i wrote about a man that refuses to plan ahead at all. i talked to him about it nicely for a compromise.thinking we could talk and come to a decision to make us both happy. she said men that make plans ahead or just whipped or a sissy. he told me i asked you to go to a wedding ahead of time. he said you should take that as a compliment bc i wont take just anybody. some women wouldnt deserve to go with me. is he is just fool of hisself? he is 31 and i dont think anyone should be talking that way? what do you think?

HELP - please -men and women- advice from experience
He is irresponsible, inconsiderate, and a bragger. I don't know what ';fool of hisself'; means, but I do think he is the kind of person I would dislike. I hope you don't like him! I also hope you don't think you can use reason and compromise with someone like this.HELP - please -men and women- advice from experience
Planning ahead for anything is always a good thing. In relationships and marriage things come up you cannot plan for. Face it. You are bringing together two distinct personalities with each of them with their own habits,plans for their own life etc.. All of this should be considered . You must agree or make allowances for each other. If before the wedding takes place you cannot come to an understanding about an issue that either of you may be passionate about; then you may consider if a wedding should take place at all.
You answered your own question. He is full of himself.
you're right! sounds like he's too into himself!
i think u just answered your question. moving on...

Respectfully request your advice...men and women alike...?

Ok. I have a very much ex girlfriend (10 yrs ago) who has just invited me and my brother to a get together that she's organizing for her husband and sister. It's their B-days coming up and they decided to celebrate them on the same day...3 days from now.

I'm pretty sure the husband knows who I am (I only met him once 10 yrs ago, and he knows my bro'), I've already talked it over with friends and we've developed a few theories: 1) He doesn't know who I am (doubtful)....2) He does but, doesn't care....3) He doesn't know I'm coming...4)This whole thing is the ex-GF's idea and once I get there...it's gonna be interesting...and 5) I'm just looking too much into this (most likely one)

Everyone involved is hispanic, I'll have to drive 6 hrs to get there and will also take the opportunity to see other friends in the area, among other things. I mention the hispanic thing 'cause...well, you'll know if you're latino or know latin men.

I'll ask her if it's ok for me to go...just a friendly question. So, fellas, what do you think? Thoughts?

Ladies, I'm making too much of this, aren't I?Respectfully request your advice...men and women alike...?
only go if you're comfortable with it. it sounds like she is.Respectfully request your advice...men and women alike...?
I would say its no big thing. If she has asked you and your brother, and the guy doesn't even know you, she is probably just trying to beef up the numbers....maybe it is a milestone birthday or something. If you are going to kill a couple birds with this one stone and visit other friends as well, I would say just make an appearance at the gathering, be sociable, then leave. Be the classy one, and look over the past.
It'd be too weird for me.

I wouldn't go.

Ex's are that for a reason.

The past is the past.

That's just me.
Don't waste your time. I'm a girl, and I think it would look pathetic for you to make all that effort for an ex.
if i were you, i'd go. Just to respond to the invitation but I wouldn't stay too long, i'd just make a quick appearance, like if it's 7h to X, i'd arrived around 8h30 and leave around 9h45 or 10h. Just because i'm a curious person and i'd really want to know how the night will evolves. But then again, it's a 6h drive from home....That girl must really want to see you, plus are the husband and sister your friends or just acquaintance??? Why invite you if you have nothing to do with these ppl. That's a curious invite and i'd really want to know what would come out of this. Never the less, be always prepared to be disappointed. what if the girl don't even acknowledge you during the party? or ignores you or tries to torture you with her new life and just wanted you there so you can see what perfect couple her and her husband are or stuff like that....
well it could be she just wants to show off a bit, kinda like, see what your missing buddy,or it could be that she still likes you as a person and wants u there, who knows, but don't bring a date, would be to much drama in one place. Just make sure if u go, that u don't act like an ***, having a bitter x is worst then having an unhappy girlfriend.
they talked about this sort of on my morning show.

yes your making to much of this but for a good reason!

youdon't want to drive 6 hours to feel well not wanted.

if your already feeling all this emotion maybe it's best you send a card on your behalf.

if you go there to say i'm the ex yeah look at me then don't go. ify your going because it's someones birthday then i don't see why the ex even needs to be brought up. I say make it easier on yourself do what's easier for you!
Ten years ago? Yep, you're reading too much into it. It sounds as though you expect the husband to be jealous. I suppose it's possible...but there is some likelihood that he doesn't know the extent of your former relationship with his wife, or so much time has passed that he doesn't consider it to be significant.

It's a little odd to receive an invitation after so long to a party being held for someone you don't really know, but as you say, you will know other old friends there and it could be a fun event.

...Or perhaps your suspicions are right. She's still in love with you, she's invited you to the party in hope of rekindling your old romance, and she plans to spring the whole thing on her husband in the middle of his party, and run away into the sunset with you! :)
It doesn't sound like you are close to her. How often have you guys talked over the last 10 years?

To me any relationship that is that old is not ';interesting';. It's been so long you are just friends. I'm sure her husband knows who you are but it's so old news he doesn't care--latino or not. He can't know you are coming though so #3 is a definite. After all you don't even know if you are going yet. I do think you are looking too much into it. I'm going to be 10 yr reunion this year and it's made me think of some of those First Kiss, First Date guys. The thought of any of them having the ability to make my husband jealous is just laughable.

However would you normally drive 6 hours for a little get together? I wouldn't. That's ridiculously far.

If you are close to this ex girlfriend go if you want. But don't read anything out of it. She just wants a good turnout for her party. I know I got together not too long ago with a guy I knew in high school. My husband told me to go. I told him all about it when I got back. If you think you will have an enjoyable time, why not go? It's just a get together though and at least your brother will be there so you will know someone there.

But if you aren't close to her or your brother doesn't want to go, I won't drive that far just for a backyard barbecue. But don't worry about the ex reading too much into it.

Respectfully request your advice...men and women alike...?

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Women! I need your advice (men can answer too)?

I always say I never meet any girls, and I used to think it was because I was shy, but now have realized that's not it. I never go anywhere where I could meet new girls. I only have one good friend I hang out with, and we either hang out at our houses, or go places where you couldn't meet women. He won't go with me anywhere to meet women, and frankly I don't know where I would. So, where can I go to meet women (good girls, I don't like promiscuous girls)? I am getting lonely, and would like to get out of my regular routine to meet a girl, but don't know where to go or when. So any advice is appreciated! (I cant meet girls at school because I go to a one-on-one music school. I am 20 btw)Women! I need your advice (men can answer too)?
Try online, ballgames, church functions, check your town's social calendar in the paper. Get out to some social functions, parties, ect...

Good luckWomen! I need your advice (men can answer too)?
I would be looking to become,a church member,part of their young adults group,where possibly your music education would be a benefit.They also have dinner nites,movie nites,picnics usually on Saturdays of course.Be great for you.I would also question your friend on why he wont move from his comfort zone,make sure you arent his zone.Your one on one school,will make you more appreciative of what your life can be.Girls are fun but treat them right.they make the world not a bad place.
awww that is soo sweet...I think you should go to the nearest Christian University because there are the best find there, or Church, or a shopping center on a Sat. evening....good girls are out shopping or in Church singing on the weekend not clubbing or partying...also don't be shy to approach them- be confident :-] Good Luck!
There are often college age groups thru churches for your age and you don't even have to go to the church. They try to make places for people your age to enjoy and have social lives without getting into the bad stuff, you might want to check it out. Good luck.
The mall, church, ballgames, concerts (the kind of girl will depend on the kind of concert it is, lol), ummm that's about all I can think of.
Maybe convince your friend to go to the park and play some ball. You may see a cute girl jogging by. Super market, laundromat, mall, coffee shop, places like that. It'll happen when you least expect it.
dont laugh. but a lot of early aged women hang out @ starbucks. theres one by my house and i ALWAYS see women in there.

What鈥檚 your advice to gay men who get married?

Married to a woman.What鈥檚 your advice to gay men who get married?
I don't think there is much to say if the marriage has already taken place!

If it hasn't then I think your only choice is to come out to her and call it off.

It makes no sense to marry someone to keep up appearances.

It may be hard to call of the wedding...but it's better to do it now rather than wait and have to divorce or annul later. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for her, she deserves someone who can love her fully.

Hope that helps

MatthewWhat鈥檚 your advice to gay men who get married?
seek God

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Before or after the fact ?

Anyway, unless the guy was a very close friend and he solicited my advice, I wouldn't give any. There are so many deep, personal reasons why some men choose to keep their homosexuality a secret and go on to marry and have a family. It's not my place to judge or even give ';advice'; except perhaps ';do what you need to do'; .

Cheers.
In the first place if you are Gay you should not get married to a woman. You are heading for certain disaster. Sooner or later trouble is going to start. Most important is not to bring any children into the situation. when trouble starts, and it will, the child is in the middle of the whole mess. Everyone involved suffers for a long time to come. I know, been there and done that.
Honey if you want to marry a women and she knows your Gay,,,go for it..but..if you are pretending to be straight....STOP!! I am old enough to remember gay men doing this a lot and its never pretty...I feel so bad for these women who are used for this purpose..its totally disgusting and wrong but men had to do this to save themselves from their family's that used to just throw them away when they knew they were gay....todays world their is no reason for this...come to Massachusetts and marry a man!
Don't do it, it causes alot of unhappiness for everyone involved.
Stop denying who you are and embrace it!
Make sure both parties have a real understanding of what is going on in the marriage.

Marriages of convenience, like arranged marriages, can be ideal solutions to personal issues, but only if the people involved are honest to each other and honest to themselves about what their expectations are.

No relationship based on lies can be truly fulfilling.

Good luck! :-)
Is that called bi-sexual ?
';Dont bring diseases home';
If it makes you happy go for it...and that maybe your not really gay if you feel inlove with a woman?
divorce the woman, tell her why, and GO FER IT!

I really need advice, Men Please answer too!?

I knew a guy about 10 years ago we talked for about two years, i don't know why we stopped taking, i ended up getting married and having 3 children, but i always thought about him, needless to say I found him again and we have been talking. I am in the middle of my divorce and moving. He calls me every 3-4 days and we talk about anything we have been talking for about 2 months now. He told me from the beginning that he wanted to take it slow. Well last night he called and said, He has been thinking about how to say this without hurting my feelings, he just said I need to slow down and not rush things. He knows how I feel about him (I love him). He said He cannot be my whole world but he can be apart of it. He just kept saying I need to slow down and not rush this. He also said I need to figure out what I want and be happy with myself before he could make me happy. Maybe I am thinking to much into to this, but I can't help but think I am going to lose him again. I told Him that I was sorry and I feel like i got a second chance with him and don't want to lose it this time. know that he has been hurt in the past by another girl. I just don't know what to think, am i making more of this than need be? After talking about that we just talked like normal, and finally he told me good night sweet dreams and he will talk to me later, Good Night.I really need advice, Men Please answer too!?
I'd take his advice and figure out what you want first... If you want him and are sure as heck about that then go out and make sure it's what he wants, too.

When some ones in love they normally think too much into it anyways...I really need advice, Men Please answer too!?
he means it when he said slow down ..which is probably the best thing to say ...most guys actually have a difficult time saying that and rush things so trust him on that
well do what he says slow down. if anything this we3ll make him think if he was right by saying that and if indeed he wanted to slow down. go out and have fun let him wait. its even okay not to answer is calls. guys always like the chase.
take his advice and dont rush dont be too obsessive he cafresfor u

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Sounds like he鈥檚 got something else going on a.k.a someone else he鈥檚 interested in too.

Now don鈥檛 take this the wrong way but you come with a little baggage. It鈥檚 very hard for a man to take on 3 kids that aren鈥檛 his. If he鈥檚 telling you to slow down it鈥檚 because your coming on TOO STRONG, men like to be the pursuers- don鈥檛 ever forget that.

If he鈥檚 telling you that you need to be happy with yourself that lets me know that you鈥檝e been complaining or telling him some negative things you鈥檙e going thorough (lay off that) and hes right when he said that you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with anyone else.

*If a man only calls you every 3 days that鈥檚 game playing if he鈥檚 really interested in you, he鈥檒l call everyday if not every other day. Keep your guard up and pray about it.
I think he's either trying to let you down easy, or he's just afraid of commitment, or a combination of both. He doesn't seem to want to be a part of your life. Being hurt by another person, happens. But the answer is not to pull out of dating all together, and permanently. Let him do the contacting, for a while, if you and he talk, together. The more you tell him that you really love him and want to be part of his life, the more it appears that he will feel pressured and will back away. If he asks, first, if you love him, tell him exactly how you feel. But don't be the one to bring up the subject. You don't want to sound desperate.

I think you should wait until your divorce is final before you start dating again.

Please Look and Advice, men, women, etc...?

Is it shallow of me to enjoy having a boy toy? Anyways... I was just starting to like this guy that I was using, we were using each other really, and he asked me out awhile before but i said no cause I didn't really want to deal with anyone ';owning'; me. Now he's dating other girls and really happy but still wants to use me as before. I want to tell him that I really want more from him cause I reallllllllllly adore this guy. I want to be with him. But is it worth it? What would you do?

Like, what makes it worse is I have other opportunities that I've turned down so I could make him feel like he was the only one. Should I go and get another man toy? Perhaps one I won't fall for? (And any offers? 18 to 20 preferably...)Please Look and Advice, men, women, etc...?
You are asking the YA community if you can be a prostitute?

And then you proposition 18-20 year olds?

The only advice I have is: break the law if you wish! I can not stop an adult, (especially on line), from doing whatever they want.

Respectfully request your advice...men and women alike...?

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I need some advice, men & women please?

IVE HAD FEELINGS FOR MYFRIEND FOR YEARS. ITS THE MAIN REASON MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS HAVE FAILED. I JUST ALWAYS THINK ABOUT HIM. IM SO SHY, ITS PROB NOT EVEN HEALTHY HAHA. SO I DONT EVEN NO WHERE TO START TELLING HIM. IM AFRAID OF HIM, NOT HAVING ANY IN RETURN. HE TEXTS, EMAILS ME ALL DAY LONG, SO HOW CAN HE NOT? IT JUST SEEMSS STRANGE TO ME. IVE SLEPT WITH HIM A FEW TIMES, WHICH IS TOTALLY NOT LIKE ME, BUT I CANT CONTROL MYSELF AROUND HIM. DOES IT SOUND LIKE HE HAS FEELINGS %26amp; HOW CAN I TELL HIM OR SHOW HIM I DO (THE EASIEST WAY POSSIBLE) HAHA

TIAI need some advice, men %26amp; women please?
If he didn't like you he wouldn't text and e-mail so i'd tell him you like him.

Fashion advice: men shirt!?

I would like to give my guy for his birthday a nice elegant shirt for work, but I find all kind of choices and cannot quite decide which one to choose. HELP! here are the choices (Burberry):

- Mini collar shirt

- Cotton shirt

- Fine stripe shirt

- Double cuff stripe shirt

- Fitted shirt

Thank you for the advise!Fashion advice: men shirt!?
Fine Stripe Shirt if he isn't in the best shape

The Fitted Shirt if he is in shapeFashion advice: men shirt!?
how old is he if hes in his 20s i recommend fitted shirt aslong as hes in good shape or a fine stripe shirt possibly a bit more risky and could go WRONG id go for a nice classic fitted shirt if hes young enough for it or if he is 35 or over id say a cotten shirt i whier alot of shirts and thats just my opinion if you get him a shirt and its a fitted one id go for classic colours like blues black maybe some white or red but thats abit edgy hope i helped :)
A nice ';fitted'; button up will work for anything. Fitted shirts are the way to go as they are more form fitting and ';elegant'; looking as a result.
I personally like the fitted shirts. They have a nice lean, athletic look to them.

Sex Advice!! Men please!?

I am 25 and so if my Husband. Lately things have been getting a bit boring in the bedroom! But I know he is tired from working all the time as am I caring for our 2 children. So my question is how can I spice things up a bit! Or what does my husband really want?Sex Advice!! Men please!?
Take your children to a relatives for the evening, if possible.

Answer the door in either a very sleek ';little black dress';, or an evening gown with music playing, fresh flowers on the table, candlelight and you get my drift.... without the kids --- it's all about you and HIM!

Or -- have the hockey game on when he comes home and give each other footrubs... and have fun with it!!!!!!!!!!

BEST BET --- Go out and do something you enjoyed before the children --- Bowling, car races, roller skating, swimming, beach picnic, cards with friends -- then a nice dessert/coffee stop on the way home to talk and rekindle the ';couples'; conversation (no kid talk!)

(Only check on the kids once by phone and make sure your sitter has your cell number. That way you don't have to worry about them or interrupt your ';couple'; time)Sex Advice!! Men please!?
First of all, never turn your husband down on his advances... even if you're tired. He shouldn't either. That is unless you both agree on waiting. Try doing things out of your ordinary routine. Surprise him. Go down on him while driving... make sure ';he's'; driving the car though. Greet him after work with a sexy outfit on, a drink made and maybe a new toy for you two to play with. When he's going to orgasm, stick your finger in his asteroid. Have fun... mix it up.
he wanna be happy ! have sex %26lt;%26lt; maybe u 2 can have sex while the children in school ! But one thing i think he want u be sweet to him like when he cook something u have to say is delicious when he have a hard time on something and u say tat ok baby don't worry . And when he is tried u should help he massage !
well yes i am 16 but i have been taught so many things but here it goes well try relaxe him and give him a massage and flirt with him and wats making it boring is that he is to tence and he needs to relax and also give him some body gesturs and give him the stuff that u did before. i hoped i helped.
If you're alright with it, then I have 2 words for you: Three Way. I don't know any man that wouldn't like one. If not then just come up with something totally new, bondage can be really ';helpful'; for getting some excitement into it.
If you have a close friend preferrably a female, that might do the trick. A threesome will def. be something new for him. Depends how open you guys are.
he wants you bad. lol. don't worry. after a long day at work he looks forward to coming home and seeing what you got. put on some tiny sexy clothes and model it for him.
Not a man but my hubby loves an all u can eat buffett %26amp; BJ for dessert at least 1x weekly . . .but I do try to surprise him every once in a while with a little bottle of love cream %26amp; a full body massage
If you can take an idea from a woman...try this. Dress in a sexy black negligee, black stockings, a black garter belt and a black bra and STAY DRESSED...believe me...he will love it.
Buy Kama Sutra or Joy of Sex and try new positions.
Kinky Sex.
some spicy deep fried chicken

I need beauty tips/advice for men (all/any) please help me, ?

please give me all the ones possible or at least give me as much as you want to write. also give me good websites to look this up.I need beauty tips/advice for men (all/any) please help me, ?
go to youtube and look for aboywearingmakeup I need beauty tips/advice for men (all/any) please help me, ?
Different skin treatments work differently for different people ;-)

But Vilantae has some downsides. There's an independent review site that compares Vilantae and other skin treatments, I think you should take a look: http://www.skin-product-review.com/click鈥?/a>

Good luck :-)

My Boyfriends Black But My family and friends say black men are trouble. Any advice?

All men are trouble no matter what color, size, or shape. But if he's a good guy then ignore them tell them to stay out of your business!My Boyfriends Black But My family and friends say black men are trouble. Any advice?

DONT GO OUT WITH THE PRESIDENT WILL YOU !!!!!!!

darling , answer it yourself !! is he trouble.

yes - then they may have a point

no - then whats to argue about

theres good and bad in all creedsMy Boyfriends Black But My family and friends say black men are trouble. Any advice?
Depends..if his father stuck around bf probably will...if his father left his family and he was raised by his mom chances are good that the will leave you.
Ahh I refrain from answering as you wouldn't listen anyway. Its your life, do it as you want.
If you like him do what YOU wanna do.
Belive in what you think not others.
They are wrong.

Ok I need some advice.....men only.?

I like to get the opinions of men that are 45 years old and older about life.......so what can you tell me now that is going help me through life or maybe something you wish you would have known when you were 20 years old. I would appriciate anything you could tell me%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;THANKSOk I need some advice.....men only.?
i am 41 and i will tell you this if you exercise and eat right you will be happier in your 40s you got to use it or lose it . and wait till your in your 30s to have kids this gives you time to save and prepare and i found out the older you get the more you appreciate kids and you do more with them like playing in the yard , live life to its fullest.Ok I need some advice.....men only.?
Okay. So life is a bit tricky, life is full of decisions, or made of desicions I guess... but we have to understand that every little we do counts to God. We have to keep our works good. He is watching.

Life is an element, we usually don't get it, but it is an element or let's say a doorstep to where we'll lead tomorrow.

I hope I have given you my ideas helpful and sufficient and until next time!
46... ';Look for the little things people do';, it speaks ';VOLUMES'; of what they are really like !

If they do mean things to animals, and are always telling you how they screwed someone over, you can pretty much bet that they will screw YOU over.

Another amazing phenomenon happens when getting older, Your parents all of a sudden turn from being ';Square %26amp; Stupid';, to being the smartest people that you've ever met, it's like ';Alien's'; came down and changed them all of a sudden, giving them an enormous amt. of intelligence, you then become REALLY sorry that you did'nt Listen to them.
I'm a woman. I just wanted to say I LIKE YOUR QUESTION!!!
this is the golden time, whatever u do in next 5-7 years that will pay you life long, surely. So if u r doing good things u must get goodluck for rest of the life, otherwise u can think and do the bad habits and it way pay similarly to next part of life, bye , take care

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Men, what advice would you give to a woman reentering the arena of dating, after a long marriage?

If you are looking for a relationship, then just let it come naturally. Don't rush it, don't hope for it to happen within a given time period.

If you are looking for sex, then that's another story. You don't really need to date for that.Men, what advice would you give to a woman reentering the arena of dating, after a long marriage?
don't rush, take your time, observe the scenery. learn who is who before you send any signals. signals like i am available.

very likely lots of things have changed since your last hunted.

you need to be aware of what's current in the marketplace. talk to the girl friends etc.

health is really important, so be careful.

armed with good information, you can make good decisions.

you need to discuss your changed situation with your children.

they may have a problem with a strange man hanging around mon. if you have sons this could be especially difficult. same for daughters.

you also need to be careful with strangers around your children.

take your time and ease into your new role. you don't want to wind up absent from home all of a sudden especially with the ex not around.

try to have good relations with the ex, if possible. even though you are not together any more there could be an explosion if he sees you with someone new. this could inspire him to do something spiteful.

try not to antoginize him, feeling for ';my wife, my woman'; can continue to run very very very deep even after the separation.

never tell him about a new person. if the situation comes up say something like; '; i really hardly know this person, i have enough problems to deal with';

never tell him; '; my new man is much better than you. he is like a damn horse, he is moving my inards around etc.';, this could send feelings into the volcanic area.

no doubt you have heard about ex spouse's doing awful inexplicable things. its often times hurtful things that are said. words can cut like a knife.

best wishes and good luck.Men, what advice would you give to a woman reentering the arena of dating, after a long marriage?
Go to church. Stay away from the bars.
Try not to be jaded, or bitter cynical about men, dating in general. There's some understandable, and unavoidable 'baggage' (we all have it, so it's not a criticism), but viewing everything through the lense of the past is going to create alot of self-fulfilling prophesies. It's tough for us NOT to view and compare prospects to our past relationships.
First and foremost, make sure you're ready to start dating again. And if you have children, make sure they're cool with the idea.

If that's all established, then set your standards. You've been through love and heartbreak, so don't set yourself up for another downfall by going for those typical men in bars or clubs. During marriage, I assume that whole concept just fades to black (I've never been married, only 20 years old). So try going to places that attract men that meet your standards. Like smart guys? Go to Internet cafes or bookstores. Like sports fans? Go to a sports game. Like the musically inclined? Go to concerts that fit the criteria of music YOU like. Look for men that fit your interests and standards, and are willing to be with you after they know about your long marriage. It may be a little harder now more than ever, but its still not impossible. Do what you used to do. How did you attract your ex-husband? Will it work again? Think of it as a football playbook. Execute some old moves, but cook up some new ones as well. Good luck, and happy dating.
don't give your self up easily. make men earn your attention.
Be open.

Which advice is correct regarding men's dress shirt collars?

Hi! At one site I read a spread collar is for more formal occasions and should always be worn with a tie. Also, a point collar is less formal and can be worn with or without a tie.

Another site states the type of collar depends on the shape of your head and men with round faces should avoid spread collars. I don't have a round face...

My question is does the collar depend on the occasion or the shape of one's head? What are the rules for picking collars?Which advice is correct regarding men's dress shirt collars?
well, I can't specifically answer your question but I can tell you that over the past couple years fashion rules have been basically thrown out. Nowadays it's ';as long as you look good and somewhat like everyone else with a touch of your own style you are fine';. Which is a relief to many men with such plights. I say, wear what you like and what you have.Which advice is correct regarding men's dress shirt collars?
There really isn't a specific method of dressing when collars are involved. I guess it just depends on the situation. For example, if you are going to a business meeting, button it up and wear a tie. If your going to the nightclub, maybe unbutton the top buttons and go for the casual look.

Collars do not depend on the shape of one's head. Where did you hear that? It sounds very ridiculous to me. Anyways, I hope this helps.
Point collars are generally considered less dressy than spread collars. However, you do need to pick collars based on your face shape, not on the occasion. There are dressy and less dressy shirts with all the types of collars. So base it on what looks best with your face.

Lets try it this way, men i need your advice please?

Would you go back for s ex if it was shite, does it have to be good s ex for you to want more, or does it not matter?Lets try it this way, men i need your advice please?
simple awnser. yes.

im preeeetty positive its the same for women,

let me ask you this...

If a man loved you with all his heart, but in bed it was horrible,... would you still love him?

hope ive helped :)Lets try it this way, men i need your advice please?
When sex is good, it's really really good.

When sex is bad... it's still pretty good!

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if am honest yes the sex has to be good other wise whats the point, come on you can have no dead body in the bed its not on lol
Eh...sex is almost always good for us guys...you are asking the wrong people!

Can I get some advice on a new (men's) hairstyle?

I currently have a short faux hawk, but I'm getting a little bored with it. Would anyone on these great interwebs be willing to give me some advice on a new cut that would look good on me? I appreciate it!

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I'm not very conservative, so go wild.Can I get some advice on a new (men's) hairstyle?
Hello cutie pie!

Although your current style suits you and looks pretty good, I completly understand the need for change, and for you I have just the solution!

Voila James Dean.

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This is one of my favorite mens hairstlyes! it is so sexy and flattering on everyone! it gives that badboy appeal without trying too hard, plus it's been around for a while so it's not cliche or trendy in anyway.

this look is perfect your you and your bone structure, hello flattery!

Have a great time with this hairstyle and own it thats te key. confidenceeCan I get some advice on a new (men's) hairstyle?
Hairstyling and makeup is an important aspect of every men and women's life. Find new hairstyles for women and teenagers for short, medium and long hair.

First date advice...men only!!!!!?

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This is for those in the US Army.especially married service men/women..Advice?

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Men.. sex advice please. as many answers as possible!?

Men, your advice please?

Any advice men? Is he genuine?

i am in a dead end relationship that has been on the rocks for about a year, we split up for 5m last year %26amp; got back together to try again but its only got worse. Thn October last year i met a man in the place i work who i assumed was a bit of a player but i was really attracted to him and we got on great. He spent 2months tryin 2get my number even tho he new i had a bf %26amp; i gave in n we started txtin/talking/seeing eachother all the time.Daily.The chemistry is amazing, we have the same tastes, we're comfortable around eachother. He has opened up to me about his past, i've met his mates %26amp; he wants me to meet his sis.I think we both thought it was just harmless fun in the beginning but we've both developed strong feelings for eachother even though we've just been 'dating' since November and haven't slept together and he say's he is prepared to wait as long as it takes. Last week he told me he was fallin in love with me and since then has become much more bothered by the fact i have a bfAny advice men? Is he genuine?
He sounds like a winner to me, if he was a player he would have already moved on because you have not given him sex. It's time to dump your ex and move on to greener pastures. I met my wife at work and we were both in loveless marriages at the time. So give this relationship a try. Good luckAny advice men? Is he genuine?
A player obviously knows how to charm women, otherwise how can he be a player?

If you really want him THAT badly, go for it. Even if you ended up getting conned, it's not so bad. It's not as if you'll lose a pound of flesh
I would come out and have a direct talk with this new guy and tell him exactly what your concerns are. And if he really is willing to wait is he willing then to get a place for you to move in with him, is he willing to get you an engagement ring... I would ask those hard questions before ending your marriage not matter at what state that marriage is in
There is no way to know for certain if he is genuine, but if he wants you to break up with your boyfriend you at least know that he wants you 24/7 and not just for some side lovin' with no strings.

(Unless the only way he can get any lovin' is when you are without your old guy, then it could be an elaborate game, especially if he has other females taking care of him while he waits for U)

With this guy, though, understand you are not just dating him. He has a little solar system of people around him like and ex wive, kids, ex-grandparents, etc that are going to be part of the equation, no matter what.

If you do not mind his extra luggage, give it a shot.

In reality, though, you have decided to jump for the first bloke that popped up with a wink and a smile, that looked better than the winner you had.

Might want to look around a bit and see what other men are out there.

Meeting men -- eye contact advice for a shy girl?

I'm a newbie when it comes to being a sales man...any advice from those who are experienced?

Does anyone know a shop that sells tights for men? Or will happily offer size advice for a man?

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Capricorn men...what advice for a Libra woman on dating a ';Sea Goat';?

what the heck is a seagoat? Date one like you would any other sign.

HELP - please -men and women- advice from experience

Men, I need some approaching advice towards women?

what do you have? I am very friendly and funny, I just always feel like I will come off as a pig if I give a girl compliments or ';just'; try to talk to her, so what is a good approach?Men, I need some approaching advice towards women?
.By being honest,sincere and open.

Any advice on women selling men's clothes?

I just got a job selling men's high fashion suits, shoes and clothes. I only have experience with women. Is there anything I should know that will help me be a successful salesperson?Any advice on women selling men's clothes?
Something I've noticed when shopping with my partner... Very few long time salespeople SEEM honest... We tend to pick out the newest looking salesperson on the floor because they TEND to give better advice... My partner has NO color sense whatsoever... We don't WANT to hear ';That looks great!';... we WANT an honest opinion from someone we EXPECT to have SOME fashion sense... Not ever color works with every person's skin tone... suggesting something else isn't going to offend us!

Another thing, even if we are checking out the discount rack first, don't write us off... IF we don't find something we like in his size, we will move on and check out the rest of the store... To ignore us (and yes, we've had 3 salespeople chatting amongst themselves UNTIL we left the discount rack) simply means our money isn't worth their effort... The discounted $400 suit may not get you a very hefty commission... but when you add the 3 $75 shirts, the 2 $50 ties.. AND the fact we ARE going to look for the ';good'; salesperson the next time we are in the store, I'd think it's worth your time and effort to come see us at the discount rack...Any advice on women selling men's clothes?
well i guess dont say anything about their size and not so many compliments unless he wants them 4 a reason and thats all i can think of......

Any men out there got some advice on how to get laid on the first date ?

anyone ?Any men out there got some advice on how to get laid on the first date ?
Pick the right girlAny men out there got some advice on how to get laid on the first date ?
You dont want that, a girl that puts out on the first date is not someone you want to be dating to begin with. I like it when I have to daye them for a while and work for it it makes it so much better when we finally do sleep together
the best advice i have for you is to not do it. if you do you'll just end up like all the other guys who expect that to happen
You might need to be more patient. No gal wants to put out on the first date, because they know there won't be a second date.
use the date rape drug
HA! Not likely.
go to a fcking brothel

Experienced Advice...men and women...?

I sincerely need some good advice. How do you forget about somebody you have fallen in love with? It doesn't matter how/why, but I am crazy about a man that I simply can't have. What do I do to forget him? Thanks so much.Experienced Advice...men and women...?
time is your only answer. you must give yourself time to get over someone like that. distance is the other key factor. the more you have any kind of contact...even if its just seeing him around...with this person the longer and harder it will be to get over him. pick up some new hobbies/sports/acitivities that take your mind off of day dreaming about him. start going out to meet new poeple. a new hottie always takes the mind off of the old one!Experienced Advice...men and women...?
well kinda sounds like he may be married or something, just get over it, obsessing about it, will drive you nuts- you gotta move on hun
You accept the fact that a relationship isn't possible, realize that you're wasting part of your life pining over something you can't have, so why not put it behind you and move on to happier times?

What might you be allowing yourself to miss out on, by focusing on something with no future? Don't let something even better pass you by...
u can never forget him....u have to live with his memories....

remember 1 thing LOVE NEVER DIES!!!
It is sooo hard to forget about someone that you are in love with and it most likely is going to take some time. Try to get back to the dating scene and keep busy to keep your mind off of him. Before you know it you could find a guy who is wayy better than the guy you curently like. It took me about 5 months but it worked.
YOU MOVE ON!!!!!! He never was yours to begin with. Keep busy with other activities and projects. Soon the hurt will begin to lessen
Not sure how to say how you can forget about one you are crazy for. But if you can not have him, yes it is best to go forward.. Try to get out more wtih other people or friends, keep busy and i am sure you will find someone you will fall for . good luck...

make up advice

Why do men give advice when a woman just wants to talk,?

but then get upset if a woman offers advice?Why do men give advice when a woman just wants to talk,?
most men see it that if u are talking u are asking for help with something, they think if they fix the problem u will stop talking about it. but when it comes to there problems they just want to get it out and have some one listen, and any advise especially practical makes them feel stupid.Why do men give advice when a woman just wants to talk,?
because women don't give advice they give hate

I need help how to patent my idea,I dont want to pay to middle men,I just need an advice?

There are a lot of misconceptions out there about patents and the process. You do NOT need a working model to patent an invention. (I used to work for the patent office.) The requirements for a patent are explained on the patent office site. See www.uspto.gov. They have sections on the basics of patent law and the requirements for a patent. They also have a nice searchable database where you can see if your idea has been previously patented. This should be your first step because many ideas have been patented even if they are not in commercial use. In other words, just because you don't see it on the market doesn't mean it hasn't been patented. If you decide to proceed with a patent, you need a good written description of your invention, usually with drawings and good ';claims';. Claims define the difference between your invention and what has been done before (known as the ';prior art';) The process is complicated so get a lawyer if possible. The USPTO website has a listing of all patent attorneys. Costs vary depending on the lawyer. $4,000 is on the low side and top firms can charge $20,000 or more. Good luck.I need help how to patent my idea,I dont want to pay to middle men,I just need an advice?
First of all, you can't patent an idea - you need a working model of an invention for it to be patentable.

Getting a patent is a complex process, and would be unlikely without working with a patent attorney. Nobody here can give you all the steps you'd need to take.

Read more at the US patent and trademark office website http://www.uspto.gov/I need help how to patent my idea,I dont want to pay to middle men,I just need an advice?
Well youre going to end up paying someone. Either to register your patent, or getting a blue print done of ur idea.

Try:

www.legalzoom.com

or

www.uspto.gov
My friend is in the process of getting a patent. I assist her in getting a lawyer to go over all the legal stuff, because there is a lot. You might want to check this out first!
Get your info or documents from www.legalzoom.com - very nice site. See to it that you have a working model to register the patent. No use to register an idea. Will be rejected.
Contact Tony Bright at http://www.nopieinthesky.net

He's an inventor who has had an invention go to market and now helps other people.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

What's the best advice men can give me?

tell me anything, about love, your car, school, your cat, whatever!What's the best advice men can give me?
be honest , help others , smile every where every time! :)What's the best advice men can give me?
not a guy, but all I can hear a guy say is 'take off your clothes... lol
some times love can hurt and sometimes its beautiful and email me if u want to talk

jordan_townsend2000@yahoo.com

or my 360 page look at my answer profile
be yourself

Moving in with my fiance. Any advice, married men & women?

Hello.

I am moving in with my fiance. I'm excited but also nervous.

We've stayed at each others houses for maybe a week at a time but I'm sure living together will be very different...

Can anybody just me some tips or advice on Living with your special someone %26amp; marriage?

Much Appreciated. :)Moving in with my fiance. Any advice, married men %26amp; women?
Hi! whens the wedding? if the wedding is not in the next couple months I wouldn't be moving in. I think it gives the guy all the advantages of marriage and not so many for the woman. I've been married 30+ years and love being married, lived with my husband for about a month before we got married. Living with someone shows all the good and the bad, I think the key to a long health relationship is having your own friends, being able to be together and separate without having to worry about what he or she is doing. Always honesty, compassion and respect. Sex is always important. There will always be good times and bad. Work on the foundation of your marriage. good luck, put a ring on it....soon.Moving in with my fiance. Any advice, married men %26amp; women?
divide all the chores right away, like my husband washes dishes and I wash the laundry. that way there is no argument over who does what and when.

get the financing stuff all figured out right way. who's going to pay for what and how much? this is very important and might save yourself from future problems

remember that even though you both live together you still are separate people and need your own time sometimes.

most important thing:

don't forget why you are living with each other, always always always remember you love each other even when it gets hard. ;)
give 80 percent and take 20 percent. Also, just in case you didn't want to know, living together before marriage is not an indication of whether or not the marriage will succeed; in fact most couples who live together first, and then get married, end up getting divorced within 2 years.
Prepare to fight, argue, bicker

Prepare to COMPROMISE

I am still with my husband, and although we love each other very much, we fought for about 3 months when we first moved in.

It's a BIG transition. It takes some time to get used too. Just dont throw in the towel right away. You jsut need to talk things out and make a routine you can both groove too.

Add: We lived together for almost 2 years before we were even engaged. Still the best decision i've ever made.
don't nitpick

have mature dispositions/disagreements

do your own chores at first

have fun

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