Thursday, December 31, 2009

Men advice - Will he change his mind?

I started going out with this guy 5 weeks ago, it started really well with flowers and sweet gestures. I then went on holiday for two weeks and since being back the dynamics of the relationship weren't quite the same, he didn't seem to be making as much effort and would be rather hot and cold with his emotions and contact with me. On Monday i decided to talk it out with him and said i thought he wasn't really putting much effort in and it seemed he could take or leave the relationship, but i wanted more. He understood completely what i meant and agreed i was really asking for much but although he 100% wanted to be with me he didn't know whether he could whole heartedly do a deep and meaningful relationship right now, you see he is just about to move out of the family home and sees his life to be full of more freedom, i said that i understood and wouldn't want to deny him that. We agreed that we were just in two different places right now, he said he didn't want to close the door on the relationship and over the next few weeks (after he has moved out) he might realise that he can offer that sort of commitment. Do i hold out for what might be a miracle, or assume that that it is now?? Men are so hard to work out!Men advice - Will he change his mind?
id say he still really wants you just his heaps stressed about this moving out of home buisness and dosnt have all the time to do everything just yet. imo i think you should wait but keep in constant contact ;PMen advice - Will he change his mind?
i feel he has been honest with you, now you be honest with yourself. tmm

In need of men advice..?

have this guy who


s acting pirculiar... there was one occasion.. that while I was talking to him.. he didn't give any eye contact, the entire time we talked , then I noticed he had his hands in his hoodie pocket, he just acted nervous the entire time, then at the end of the


conversation , he asked me how my christmas was...I I told him it was okay..then he asked so who did you spend it with...And I told him just family. Then the next day, I seen him.then later on, he comes up to me and he's like oh..your face..and I asked what about it, he says..you look so sad...and I really don't want to see you like that and he wants to cheer me up and he asked me what I was listening to on my ipod...and he started cracking some jokes...and then he asked me so when will you be back here at the gym again..I told him probably tommorrow..and he was like well I'll be messing with you tommorrow then..so what do you think? Do you think he's flirting or just being cordial? And if so why no asked out?In need of men advice..?
He's flirting....In need of men advice..?
He doesn't like you the way you want him to. he's just being friendly
Sounds like he likes you but is too shy to ask you out.
Girl yeah he is trying to flirt and if you like him you can play it with him too to let him know.
Sounds like he likes you but is just nervous. He's trying to get a conversation started but doesn't know how to get it from there to the ask out.





If you really like him and want to give him a hand, tell him you're going somewhere for lunch or dinner, whatever, and see if he wants to join you.
I think at first he was nervous cause he didnt want to mess anything up between you and him.. I certainly think he likes you and was flirting, and maybe once he gets to know you more he'll ask you out..
well from personall experince(seeing how i am a guy) yeah he is nervous we keep our hands in our pockets so we dont do anything stupid
I think that this gentlemen likes you!! He was nervous because he was probably afraid that he will say or do something wrong to the point that you don't want anything to do with him. You could go up to him (in private) and ask him if he would like to get something to eat after school. Be casual about it. Continue getting to know this gentlemen and see what he is all about. The more you hang out with him, the less nervous he'll get when he's around you. Guys can be like that sometimes. Remember to take your time. Take things slow. It could escalate into something more. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
MOVE ON

I feel really unattractive ...is this putting him off me? men advice please?

i have gained some weight recently and i have always been self consious about myself, howver now im a sexual relationship i find it hard to just strip and feel comfortable. because i have gained weight i think him looking at me naked will put him off, however is it that or the fact that i hide my body that puts him off me?


i don't know what to do


if i was more body confident would he get more turned on. because he loves me, and a girl being confident is important or is it that seeing me naked would make him think different?I feel really unattractive ...is this putting him off me? men advice please?
Women have this tenaciously-held notion that we men only like women who are stick thin like the 16 year old models that they see in virtually every ad in women's fashion magazines.





Completely untrue. That notion is absolutely false. Wrong.





The truth is that we like women of all body types - tall, short, skinny, not so skinny, etc. We like them all. What they all have in common is that they are women, and that is what we like - not their shape or size. We just don't care.





Trust me on this point. I know I am right. I am a straight guy that has been around the block a few times.





So, you gained some weight? Big deal. I am very sure it is a far bigger deal in your mind than his.





Honestly? He probably hasn't even noticed, and if he has noticed, he doesn't care. You still have plenty of T %26amp; A right? That is what really matters to us guys.





Don't hide your body. There is no need to. He doesn't care. Trust me.I feel really unattractive ...is this putting him off me? men advice please?
Mary Beth, has he told you to put your clothes back on? If not you need to appreciate he loves you for you. Stop being so hard on yourself and start to enjoy life.
Lose weight. It'll make both of you happier.
lol well alot of people feel that way don't be scared

Men against feminism, what advice would you give young girls and women today?

What advice would you give women today besides ';stay away from feminism.';Men against feminism, what advice would you give young girls and women today?
Lots to say:





- Use common sense, and think for yourself. Don't trust anything people say.


- Respect those who earn respect, not everyone who demands it.


- You're not 'entitled' to anything, no matter what feminists say, or what Cosmo tells you. You earn everything.


- You'll only contribute to the Domestic Violence rates and/or rape statistics by choosing a bad guy because he's 'exciting' rather than going for a 'boring' good guy. Only in movies can women make the bad guy a perfect husband. In real life, you'll end up as sh*t if you try something like that.


- Women aren't prohibited from making the first move, or paying the bill.


- You have the choice to do anything with your life. Just don't blame others if your choices screw up your life.


- Stay away from friends who tell you men are bad and aren't to be trusted. Make friends as sensible as you want to be yourself.


- Men aren't there for you to compete against, and nor are they inferior to you. They're there to complement women, and women are there to complement men.


- And last, no matter what feminists say, it's perfectly normal to love a man, be a stay at home wife/mother and want to have children.Men against feminism, what advice would you give young girls and women today?
Just to be themselves, be what they want and that they don't need feminism to get on in life.





Id warn them that the feminist economy doesn't really have a place for stay at home women or women that want lots of children unless they choose a life on the dole.








Id tell her that if another woman tries to tell her that average men are responsible for wars, slavery and sexism to respond with, ';isn't it the ruling class that are responsible for those things?';
As a feminist, I am delighted with the sage advice imparted to young girls by such anti-feminist luminaries, if this does not galvanise some into the realisation that 'feminisms' are more relevant today than ever then I will wear a Fathers4 Justice Tshirt and dangle of a major UK landmark...from paternal concern to rank sexism...there is something in there for everyone! pmsl!


The ruling elite? Sexless, faceless entities eh?
1. If you want marriage and children, it's not a good idea to wait until you're 35 or so. The vast majority of women reach their prime with respect to attracting men much earlier.





2. Consider trying to make a Nice Guy less boring instead of trying to make a Bad Boy nice.





3. The Big Government that does stuff on your behalf now can turn on you or run out of other people's money, so don't be so quick to be a liberal.





4. MTV is bad for you. Lifetime is bad for you, as is television in general.
I will warn them that feminism often manipulates facts and statistics to convince you that you are discriminated against, and if you have the skill, you are equal to men in the workplace if you work as hard as they do.
Be as willing to accept the risks, effort and responsibility that men accept if you want all of the privileges men enjoy. Then everything will work out well. You don't need feminism to do that.
My advice is to study feminism using your common sense and an open mind http://www.freewebs.com/feminism-evaluat鈥?/a> Take nothing at face value from pro- or anti-feminists.
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Unless you are ready to face abuse, torment and depression, DON'T date a bad boy or you will end up saying the following-


';All men are pigs, all men are assholes.';
Men are with different opinions about feminism but for sure generaly they woud agree if modern women still do proper conduct be a role models for the youth.
Grow up. Research the terms ';responsibility'; ';integrity'; ';respect';.
I'd say to them be strong and self confident and don't let feminists tell you that women can't make it in the world without affirmative action.
use more brain and think realistically





stop getting deceived with too much makeups, love %26amp;boys fantasies.
for women it's too late,but I would say to girls to learn to respect men and boys.





feminists don't you dare give me thumbs down.
As a woman against feminism, I am curious to see what answers you get here.
The pill will please your man : )

Guys,Boys,Men advice plz.?

i act(so say my freinds) like a guy.


the way i talk, some things i do etc. im a sports fanatic and am a tomboy but i dont hit. or dress like a guy. i dont wear pink.


i say dude alot and talk very surfferish or southern but im not inappropriate burping etc. i dont act very ';girly'; but im not a wanabe guy.


i look very ';girly';/ curvy wich i dont like very much


am i dateable?


just out of curiosity. if im not why not


thnks! :]Guys,Boys,Men advice plz.?
That's not near enough information to go on. But I'm sure you're desireable to someone.Guys,Boys,Men advice plz.?
Be yourself. That is the only way you can be happy. And the right guy will like you as you are. Any one else that wants to change you is bad news. Don't go there.
Sure, I don't see any reason why you wouldn't be.
You are extremely datable.





WHERE ARE YOU
i aint no guy,but yea you datable and trust me i would date you...but we too much alike.
u r
I would date you if I was young and single.
You are most definitly datable, as a matter of fact your are probably every guys fantasy, with you they can watch the and not have to worry about neglecting you. Take your time and find the right guy - don't change because your friends say that you are a wannabe boy.
Do you have a pic?
Definitely yes. in fact alot of guys like that type of girl because you will be not only a girlfriend but also a friend. I hope could find someone like you, I would marry her immediately





However, an integral part of being sexy is to show your feminine side every once in a while, it is exactly the other way around, girls don't like hairy guys who burp all the time, but they don't like guys who are totally feminine.





One more thing, when girls are into sport or guy things, there are two pitfalls that would cause trouble in your relationships, one is to be all over your guy and not giving him any timeout to breeze. I mean don't try to replace his friends because you can be one of them.


the other pitfall don't be more manly than he is, it is very harmful and humiliating for a guy when you are better in doing guy stuff than he is. a typical example would be you for example fixing a car that he couldn't fix. or worse beat him in arm wrestling.
Yes you're datable! lol





So, you act like a guy. Big deal. Be yourself.
umm.. i think you need to girl up just a little.. show your feminine side. you need to show your curves.. not dislike them. or else your only chances of being with a guy is as a friend. i would hate to see that cause it seems to me that you want to be datable.
sounds dateable to me!
Well... the thing is that boys might look at you as one of them, just like a friend and nothing more. Boys usually like girls that act like girls, are feminine and sexy and dress like that...that just awakens their instinct of protection. If you act too boyish they might get a little bit intimidated by you or just won't see you like a potential girlfriend.
You are dateable. i would....your not too girly...usually most women wont like to get rufed up, but you have to be too soft with women..as long as you ride and chill with ur guy, you are just fine...most men like females who like things like guys like
I would say so because of your personality. Plus you like sports...thats hot.
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  • GAY Masculine Men! ADVICE please?

    i am a gay femme, only 20. my bf is a complete top. i have only ever been a bottum and don't think ill ever be atop and dont want to be. i am just wondering what being a top feels like?GAY Masculine Men! ADVICE please?
    Aww what a sweet question. I'll gladly answer from a Top's perspective.





    Lets start with the perspective of a bottom. My past lovers have said that I've made them feel very loved and wanted. Well, just flip that around. If you feel *loved* and *desired* then the other person - if its a healthy relationship - is feeling love and desire for you! All their attention is on you and they are experiencing adulation - a culmination of all their good feelings toward you intensely expressed through physical desire.GAY Masculine Men! ADVICE please?
    .. but arent you suppose to be on top cause you weigh less .. but then again you dont have a vagina .. so arent you suppose to have anal and not be able to see him ..





    btw you dont want to be on top while filming , because the whole time .. all you will see is YOUR butt going up and down .. and thats not .. a good thing to masturbate to or enjoy.
    I've been a top before, but prefere bottom so much more %26gt;.%26lt; just ask your boyfriend to let you try it.





    Force him to cuddle? my man does that automatically lol.
    GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But im a girl and im not gay so idk if its the same



    Then try pitching instead of catching!
    I'm femme too and have been a top once. it's ok i prefer being a bottom boy tho
    It feels like nothing ever...tight warm damn!
    This one time...


    At band camp...


    The cherry pie...


    Try it out :O

    Men advice! please help!?

    I met this guy 5 months ago in a petrol station, we started bumping into each other every morning and i ended up giving him my number. We spoke everyday on the phone at least twice and txt through the day as well, thing was i wasn't looking for a relationship because i Had just come out of one and so had he but he was quite persistent in meeting, we met maybe 3 times in this time outwith the petrol station :) and we got on so well were just so alike so recently we've been meeting every night and thing were going great or so i thought. He told me he loved me and i feel the exact same. But... he told me today that whilst we were just talking on the phone and meeting rarely he slept with his ex again and another random girl. I feel kinda hurt and betrayed and resent him for this? am i being selfish? he was asking to meet me everyday and telling me how much he liked me but i just wanted to take things slow that's why i didn't meet all the time. I dint know what to do?? do i show him the door or try forget it? help!!!Men advice! please help!?
    Forget it. Men crave sex i am soz but men need it more than women.





    Dont rush into a relationship with him until you are sure he doesnt like his ex or this other girl.





    Just make sure it is genuin befor you commit yourself.





    He isnt the only guy out there remember that but again this isnt a reason to show him the door.





    Hope I Helped. x-x-xMen advice! please help!?
    talk to him, tell him that you want to move slowly with him. but he cant be doin that **** to you. and i would somewhat resent him for that, show him that it hurt you because you wouldnt do that to him. i think give him a chance though will do good.
    You are not being selfish, if he was into you he should not have strayed. He was in the wrong.
    Look forget about him-he said he loved you-yet he slept with two other girls!


    Hes using you so dont get attached!


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    so you still make love with him, not to bright are you? he works during the day and makes dates with the customers, i think he is doing very well for himself getting paid and getting laid. at least if not none, he is honest to you. one good thing about him, faith and trust are not on his agenda. stop making love to the creep, he tunes up too many cars. one day you will be in clinic with something you do not want. bye bye is what you say, no contacts at all. lose the gas man and move up to a better station to bring the car in for a special treat. try the high test next time. sorry, but he is a sh-t head.
    DUDE THATS SO GAY STICK WITH THE LADIES
    Well at least he was honest and told u wat he has done.... its not like u guys were official anyways u guys were just dating.... yea of course i would be hurt too no doubt cuz the feelings are there but u cannot say that he cheated on u because u guys arent or werent a couple....i'd say give him a chance and see how it goes being a COUPLE...well things should def be different.....he should respect u more..so give it a try like i said as a couple
    sounds like he only wanted to put his nozzle in your tank





    id forget him and drive on if i were you
    I'm proud of u for not getting ahead of yourself ... however, this guy seems like a swinger. he wants a birthday party with all of the fixings and it's not even his birthday. I know u were pretty gung ho about this one but usually when your instincts tell you to take it slow or not right now... LISTEN. you just got out of a relationship and guys are different from girls in that area. give yourself time to heal and just let him go ... when another comes around and wants to get with you just tell him you're not looking for a relationship.
    A man worth keeping wouldn't have done that. He was persistent in trying to meet you because he wanted to get some. You said no, so he got it elsewhere. I would move on, other fish in the sea.

    Ok So Im A Sex...... Men advice?

    Addict And Me and My Boy friend Just Broke up


    And I Miss The SEX terribly.





    Men Any AdviceOk So Im A Sex...... Men advice?
    go buy a toy. Or start hitting the bars and im sure you can find a guyOk So Im A Sex...... Men advice?
    strip clubs
    I love it too and if I had to go without it for very long I would start looking for hookup! It could be a man or a vibrator/dildo. Just remember to practice safe sex and be careful. Lots of crazy people in this world. Find someone you know and trust and become friends with benefits, that way when you need it you got it!
    Get on the pill and open yourself up for business!!! Time to run a train!!!
    get a good vibrator
    Why portray your self as a sex maniac - a nympho ... Every adult normal human need sex ...





    But does that mean - u shall downgrade yourself like cats n dogs ...





    Get a new reliable b/f ... then go for it ...





    Till then u can go for self gratification - no harm in that.
    Call me.
    Here, talk to my tongue.
    woah.....um......see i haven't done that yet...and i don't plan on it for a while....so......yeah.
    Get a friend with benefits or two. I have a few of those. When you want sex you call one of them and you get together. No relationship and no headaches.
    find some one else try something new
    Take the seat off of your bicycle and go for a long ride....
    Well... Consider having a friends with benefits with him if thats what you miss and he agrees to it.. Then you both could get alil and then go your seperate ways afterwards... OR... Find someone else and do the same thing. There are many willing guys out there that will give out some booty just hit a local bar or club. Nowadays you can even get one ONLINE!!
    take a trip to spencers

    What is the best medical advice for men to do sex when they have lost their power because of masturbation?

    nWhat is the best medical advice for men to do sex when they have lost their power because of masturbation?
    If you can't get it up, buy some viagra








    P.S. You don't lose your power ';because of masturbation';. You lose it as you age or if you have a medical condition (such as poor circulation).What is the best medical advice for men to do sex when they have lost their power because of masturbation?
    viagra will help
    Think this is more of a mental issue than physical.
    masturbation will not cause in losing power for sex.
    My boyfriend had read once that masturbation makes for a longer sex drive

    Guys.................help i need men advice?

    Ok so ive liked this guy for about 5 years - we are friends, well ';good'; friends if you know what i mean. Anyway in the taxi to his last night he said i can say this to you now im drunk............i wouldnt mind you being my girlfriend as your not a selfish cow and you wouldnt hurt me like i have been in the past.....................but when he took me home this morning we didnt talk about it. So basically i think i need to say something - i do want to go out with him - do you think i should just ask him out?





    Please help.....................thanksGuys.................help i need men advice?
    well the truth is siad when people are drunk.so just ask him out.whats the worst that can happen?he could say no but ull still haave you friendship.Guys.................help i need men advice?
    Yeah go for it, if it doesn't work out then you can always go back to being f*ck buddies...
    Simply put - yes
    Sure go for it
    why can't you ask a girl?
    read your question and the edit it it's a bit tough to follow
    Dont get your hopes built up on anything that is said while a person is drunk!
    you have had sex with the man given him your most precise body.but your scared to ask him to be your man girl boo
    I think you should say it - kinda just say, hey i was thinking there about what you said in the taxi the other night!! Were you actually serious?


    If he doesnt remember - tell him!!!! If he gets all embarrassed I think he DID mean it! Then say you've kinda felt the same thing for a while and that ye should give it a go. Also say that in the event ye dont get on romantically that you want a pact that the friendship will never suffer


    Good luck
    Same thing happened to me.





    It was really great while it lasted but it ended because we already knew too much about each other and we dont talk at all now.





    Ruined a beautiful friendship..
    I guess he loves u all these while but dint know how to tell u an thats why it took him drunk b4 he can say it out so go for him SAY YE!!!
    Ask him if he remembers the convo then take it from there but it depends if you feel the same way.
    Yes just ask

    Men, Advice needed?

    Tutored a guy a while back, kind of felt mutal chemistry between us, because he was a university employee and I a grad student we could not date and left the situation alone, he called two months later to see how I was doing. When we spoke I initialy acted as though I didnt know who he was (his response ';its like that';) to say in a sense that I wasnt caring to much about him calling and in the conversation kind of made a referance to having a boyfriend (which I didnt). It has now been six months since I last spoke with him and I still think of him everday and have never felt this way about a guy. What should I do? Call him and let him know how I feel. I am so friggen confused. Please Help!Men, Advice needed?
    Think not of the consequences of your actions but of your want, your need. If you must think of the bad think of the good. He could be the one you will spend the rest of your life with. Isn't true love worth the effort?Men, Advice needed?
    well go for it if you still dont have the employee student thing goin on
    You acted as if you didn't know who his was? Made a reference to a boyfriend? You kind of blew him off, right?





    Now you've been thinking about him for 6 months every day?





    Get professional help.....please!
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    You shouldn't have played games with him. He might not be interested anymore. You could still call him and see how he feels, but be honest with him.
    You should just call him then. He might not be available or interested now though.
    Well yeah ofcourse go talk to him and explain how you really feel about him and let him know that ever since that moment ...you regret not knowing what to do....nah just call him and tell him you miss him


    !!!!! and that you've never felt like this for a guy!!!!!
    Nike!





    Just do it.
    Couldn't hurt to try to talk to him again. Try to keep it casual at first though. As if you just want a friendship. Tell him you were thinking about him, and see if he wants to catch a movie or something. See him a couple times and see if you still feel this way, and if he seems to feel the same. Then make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend, and dive in, tell him you think you would like to date him.
    O-k, If you liked him so much, why did you feel it necessary to be so UN true in how you felt?? I will never get that with people.Why say the opposite of what you want when you know you really wanted it??


    If I was you I would give him a call and let him know how you feel, but be prepared that he may have moved on and now has someone else that he is dating.All you can do this time is be honest and express how you feel truthfully this time and hope for the best. If it don't work out then its hopefully a lesson learned for you that you will act different if ever in same position again.
    Call him and see what happens - I heard it said ';The heart wants what it wants';.
    You should call him to wish him a Happy Holiday season. You don't have to say how you feel, just let the conversation flow. You already showed him the stop sign once, maybe him more of a green light. Don't play games like you did last time.
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  • Men Advice pleassseeee!!?

    Theres this guy whom work at my gym and he just smiles.. and I worked out with him this weekend..and the whole timeI he just kept smiling non -stop.. he just couldn't stop smiling/blushing while he would talked to me,, and I asked him why was he smiling/laughing so much..he told me was beacause of the faces I make they're so cute... so we continued on..and my phone started ringing, and it was by him, and instead of just handing it too me, he actually picked up the phone, and looked at the caller screen to see who was calling before he handed it too me..luckily it was my mom...but then he asks me, does my friend work out at the gym, I said no,so he said the next time he works out he'll call me.. so we could work out together.... so do you think he that into me..even though he hasn't asked me out yet.. and the cell phone thing...what is that all about





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    plus when we said bye..I shook his hand, and he was blushing/ smiling..I thought to myself wow..Men Advice pleassseeee!!?
    he likes you, but be cautious with him because might have some issues with being possessive since he picked up your phone and checked the caller id without you asking...Men Advice pleassseeee!!?
    He is a sick ( mental )man. stay away.
    it sounds like he is trying to keep tabs on you this early in the game. he may be a really nice guy but he may have a front he's trying to maintain.
    Sounds like he is into you...but signs of him being controlling with the whole cell phone deal. If you are interested then get to know him..but just that. Girl you never know now days! Good Luck!
    Sounds a little creepy to me. Tread cautiously
    sounds to me he is into you, but the cell phone thing gives a glimps that he could be controlling
    not good stay away
    I say that the guy is into you, but he hasn't asked you out yet because, by the way you described, he seems to like you so much that he's almost afraid to ask you out. The phone thing, maybe he's just checking to see if this ';relationship'; is for real or if your just having fun. And by the way, you may disagree, but YOU could ask HIM out. There's nothing wrong with a girl doing that.
    gusto k nya!!
    yea he's into you. The cell thing: maybe he was wonderin if it was a boyfriend?
    sounds like he likes you but he also sounds like he might be a bit controling..


    ?looking to see who is calling you and he doesnt even know you??????,,,thats a bit freaky
    I agree with sexb. Sounds like hes into you but whats up with him asking about your friend. Is he into her. Or maybe hes just really controlling like sexb said and wants to find out everything about you to be able to keep track
    This guy likes you and maybe he wanted to see if there was a guy on the caller ID. If you like him, hang out with, what do you have to lose?
    sounds like he likes you. stay in public places. find out about him. tell your mom and best friends. be careful. i would say he really digs you! best wishes!

    MEN! advice pleeeease! it's not a bootycall bc he's not the type to cheat.but what is this guy doing/thinking?

    i dated this guy on/off(bc he would b moody,distant after sex,n would talk about other girls inappropriately)for 1.5 yrs. i would always dump him,he would cry/beg me not to leave, and i would always go back.around the 8th month (he told everyone i was The One), he changed/became a nice guy (but w/ a temper).but then i had to leave 4 5months and dumped him(i didn't tell him that i was away and he begged me to see him but i refused.he dated other grls during that time but never quite moved on).then we got back together when i came back and i told him the truth.anyway, the arguing btwn us was worse and he was distrustful.so the on/off game ensued,cept this time he didn't want to get back together n started a relationshp with someone else,right after i rebounded.he says he's moved on,but when i cut contact for 5days(despite him wanting friendship), he suddenly said he's depressed to a friend,and so we had dinner,n he was flirty/calling me petnames.i sent him a heartfelt letter.no response!MEN! advice pleeeease! it's not a bootycall bc he's not the type to cheat.but what is this guy doing/thinking?
    MOVE ON!!! MOVE ON!! MOVE ON!!





    Get the hint? I hope I wasn't to subtle. This guy is stringing you on, manipulating your feelings, and being a real jerk. Think about hit this way- if you rbest friend was dating this guy, what advise would you give her? Probably to leave the guy, right? Take your own gut feeling and listen to it. Don't let this guy use you anymore and find someone decent who won't be such a flake.MEN! advice pleeeease! it's not a bootycall bc he's not the type to cheat.but what is this guy doing/thinking?
    MOVE ON!!!!!!





    You will spend the rest of your life reliving this same situation with this loser over and over.





    Find someone else. Don't answer his calls.

    Girls, i need men advice !?

    My boyfriend continues to be an asshole on msn and we tend to fight continuously about stupid things and then get over it after an hour. i dont want to fight with him. but when were together we NEVER fight and hes the sweetest guy in the world... why is he so different when hes on msn than when hes right infront of me?.... weve been dating 3 years.Girls, i need men advice !?
    He does not have the balls to fight with you in person.

    In need of men advice?

    Well, here i am 27 and divorced single for 5 years which is great by all means, but I really haven't dated much because of what i have been through and my outlook on men has become tainted. i am very picky in whom i chose to date which isn't all that bad, right? When it comes down to men, I seem to find the older men and the freakyish men are attracted to me and I can't figure out for the life of me why that is. I'm 5'5 with dishwated blonde hair and blue eyes, fit too. When i find a guy that i enjoy being with they seem to find excuses to putting me off or seem to not be into me. i am a professional artist working in a big city, i can be intimidating at most times and very shy. I guess i need to nkow where i'm going wrong in dating? Is it my attitude because of what i have been through? Oh and i'm not very affectionate either and i could care less about sex because i have cists that keep coming back and are very painful. Is it the sex factor or affectionate part too?In need of men advice?
    I think it is a combination of the sex factor and the past relationship. Guys now a days wants to now they are wanted by there significant other. We love to have sex. We love the attention. Maybe if you keep trying to find the right guy it will happen. My wife found me and she has indemetriousous, which are the cist that keeps coming back. This is very painful for her to have sex with me. She has had several surgeries to try to keep the pain down. I myself am very happy with her and have respected the fact that this is painful. I'm a very patient guy who will wait until she is ready for me. There are other things you can do to keep him happy too. I would suggest keep trying to find the right guy who will understand the situation, of course meeting him half way to explain your situation helps too. Good luck and I wish you well on your health issue.In need of men advice?
    Being picky is not bad unless you are using that as an excuse to not get close to someone. Often, when women put up barriers they call it being picky. It sounds to me like part of the problem is that your not very affectionate. Affection is something that most people look for in a potential partner. It is how you show someone you love them vs just saying it.





    Think about what you just wrote.. you have an attitude because of what you had just been through, your not affectionate and you dislike sex. The fact that your a professional is very nice for you, but most men won't care about your profession. I would say it's not any one of those items but the combination of all three.
    Well, you named several things which makes think this is a joke post.
    heed the captains advice -you are -picky-intimidating -and when you have sex its painful for you and no joy to the man plus you are not affectionate at all -lady if you were my date -make you walk the plank !! either change yours ways or be a nun
    I don't even know you but after reading this I wouldn't date you either.


    Trying smiling a lot and being positive with everyone. Oh, and don't mention the cysts to anyone anymore.
    I'm a guy and I feel the same with women. It's a no win. Good luck.
    Check out these sites for great relationship advice:





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    http://bestrelationshipadvice.blogspot.c鈥?/a>





    Hope it helps!!!

    I need men advice?

    Hey guys,


    Okay I'm a high school student and need to know how to ask a guy out in a good way I mean I like this guy but i don't think he knows i'm in to him and I want to take him to Homecoming So help i've never asked out a guyI need men advice?
    Give him a chocolate bar and put a note inside, ';Do you want to go to Homecoming with me, cirlce ';yes'; or ';no';... this is a cute and non-thraetening way to ask him out!I need men advice?
    juz ask him out %26amp; look really cute tat day!
    Men don't read between the lines very well. We are a lot more simple and straight forward then women. Just ask him out.
    Ohh sweetie. This is the most simple thing to do but for some reason at the time always seems soo extreme. (coming from experience) So firstly, are you friends with the boy of your dreams? If so then chit chat with him and ask him to hang out sometime. You ll realize how easy it is and just ask him out of the blue. Make it cute. Buy him a flower and and be like, ';will you be my date'; lol..guys love stuff like this. They are secretly corny and soft. lol...if you catch my drift. Just go with it. Don't worry about or you'll end up sweating profusely and mumbling. And he might just walk away ha ha...Bets of look Hun!
    ';Hey, want to go to homecoming with me?';





    I know it sounds too easy but being direct is ALWAYS the best approach when dealing with guys. Trust me .. I am a guy ... we tend to be stupid so just make it simple.





    :-)
    Sounds like you may be a bit shy.Make it easy on yourself and have a friend of yours hint to him you have an interest in going to homecoming with him.See what happens!

    Performing Of Mice and Men and need help with the accent. Any advice?

    Every time I start to read it, it starts to come out like a southern drawl but they are from California! I want to avoid watching the movie so I don't copy their acting so is there any other movies or something I could watch/listen to in order to help?Performing Of Mice and Men and need help with the accent. Any advice?
    At the time of the book, most men working were from the south ie; Texas, Oklahoma, Arkansas. Thanks to the depression and dust bowl. They had country accents.
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  • I need men advice?

    hi i shaved my face but i dont have that rugid shaved face look


    how can i get my beard and face to look like a rugid shaved


    im 18 years old first time shavingI need men advice?
    do you mean stubble? Razor stubble? Don't shave for a few days, %26amp; as the hair grows back in, you'll get ';the look'; you're after.


    You can by an electric trimmer %26amp; simply trim your beard each day, but as you shave, you'll get the hang of it.I need men advice?
    dude, it's not something u get instantly, just give it time.. it'll grow on ya
    there are electric shavers that have guards with diffrent sizes to give you that look.

    Defense for men? Advice?

    if you have sex with a girl..and it was consensual....With all the laws today regarding rape....especially the new rule..i believe its 5 seconds....you have to pull out ...if she says stop.....Is there anything that can help men avoid a false claim or rape...





    I know you're thinking just dont have sex...but i mean guys get horny I'm sorryDefense for men? Advice?
    You are under no obligaiton to prove you are innocent, it is up to them to prove you are guilty.





    Other than that, the best defense is to establish a relationship first.Defense for men? Advice?
    Pretty simple. Before you insert yourself, ask her to tell you what she wants. Don't do it until she says she wants it.





    If he changes her mind at some point, stop immediately, and ask for clarification. Make sure she knows that she is always in charge.





    What ';new rule'; are you talking about? What state/country are you in? Never heard about any 5 second rule. Unless that's just how long you last, in which case you have deeper problems that Yahoo! Answers can help you with.





    Oh, and don't have sex with intoxicated women. That's just asking for it.
    Lol, I know you will think I am being a smart a$$ but I'm not.


    If you want to feel safe %26amp; secure draw up a contract.


    I____concent to have sex with____. and you both sign it! %26amp; jot down your drivers license numbers.


    Or get the concent on some type of video/audio recorder.
    sounds like rape -consult an attorney %26amp; keep it in your pants.

    My mother angers me with men advice?

    SHe's an old fashioned gold digger and I'm 33 and single and she really angers me with some of the things she says :





    1. Ohhh ...you don't even know how to seduce a man ...you are so stupid





    2. If you pretend to like them they will follow you











    My mother keeps saying that a women you should manipulate %26amp; deceive or trick a man in to falling in love and marriage. IS this true ?My mother angers me with men advice?
    Smart lady, got her number?My mother angers me with men advice?
    From the sound of it, you already know the answer to your question. She is angering you with her views on men and relationships and it sounds like to me that your gut is telling you she is full of what makes flowers grow (the organic way of course lol). Do YOU feel that you should do all this to get a man and have him fall in love with you?





    Or would you rather meet someone with common interests, just enjoy being around them and watch as a beautiful relationship full of love, passion, and communication blooms. A relationship that is full of trust with no hidden secrets?





    Like I said from your question and examples though, you already know the answer and I'm here to validate what you think of it.
    I'm not sure about the deceit and trickery part, however... Don't dismiss your mothers wisdom... she has been around a lot longer than you and really and truly, the game hasn't changed much.


    Men are still the same men as in her day.


    The only difference now is that men run from committment and marriage, whereas in her day, men ';knew'; and excepted the responsiblility of marriage because it was the right thing to do and they would have been shunned upon if they didn't make an honest woman out of their girlfriend, but now days... They don't seem to care.





    So, now... I do kinda understand what your mother may mean because it's like pulling teeth to get these men to just committ to a relationship without being married. You might just have to trickem :):)

    Need romantic advice (men and women welcome)....?

    Here's the situation - it's my girlfriend and my 2 year aniversary tomorrow and I'm sat on the net at what is local time - 01:26 - trying to decide whether to take her to paris as a gift - now things between us haven't always been great and money isn't exactly easy to come buy - some i'm thinking - a weekend in paris with her - or a new souround sound system, a couple of new video games and a few nights out with friends.





    What do you guys reckon?Need romantic advice (men and women welcome)....?
    I think you shouldn't go if you've been having problems with love and money. She should be happy with a dozen roses and a simple 'I love you'. Don't pressure yourself into doing something that will put stess on your relationship in the future (let's face it, money problems can break a relationship and how the heck will you top this gift next year!?!)Need romantic advice (men and women welcome)....?
    I LOVE Paris, but if you're having problems, both in the relationship and financially, it's a crazy (CRAZY) expensive place, and so it would be ill advised to go there now. And a weekend in Paris isn't near long enough; if you're going to go, you must do it properly, especially if it's your or her first time there. So, save Paris until you have enough money to do it well. You probably have enough money to take your girlfriend to a romantic bed and breakfast somewhere nice but closeby for the weekend and get the surround sound system and a couple of new video games and have fun with your friends for the same price that you'd pay for a weekend in Paris.
    helll yeah i would go with the sorround system, you can take her on the third aniversary to paris if she loves u she would understand
    as wonderful as paris sounds, i think it would be too much. not to mention troubles with the economy. sometimes the best gift is a suprise alone night. dont just get her gifts, get her memories. those are what we cherish most. take her out to dinner and maybe snuggle up for a movie. it doesnt need to be lavish to make her happy.





    its nice that you want to celebrate. congradualtions :)

    How can i get my boyfriend to not get bored of me as if we first met?(men advice)?

    my bf doesnt find me fun and he has sex and all but now it seems hes getting bored but at the same time he wants to stay with me. he said he thought he loved me and now he doesnt kno.How can i get my boyfriend to not get bored of me as if we first met?(men advice)?
    Show him a side of you that he has never seen. Tell him stuff that you have never told him before and try things that you never tried with him. Whether it is something that you have both not tried or just something that just you have not tried. And you can try to fulfill one of his wildest fantasies and that might show him that you are not boring.How can i get my boyfriend to not get bored of me as if we first met?(men advice)?
    try different things during sex.........blindfolds kinky stuff u know

    Grrr Men! Advice Please??

    I wrote this guy I am intrested in a letter asking if he wanted to be freinds. Had a friend give it to him he read as he was walking. I was to afraid to look litteritly. I watched his butt walk down the road quit a view too. Yummy!!! Anyways he didnt talk just kept going reading the letter and putting it away it included my cell number so he could call if he so wanted. And also told him I am at the school alot with freinds running around.





    I didn't think I could go ahead with the letter, and I shocked myself. But what are the odds that he will reply??Grrr Men! Advice Please??
    I think the important thing here is that you had the guts to do it. Most people don't even go as far as you did and always wonder what would have happened if ???? You on the other hand took charge. Bravo to you. If he calls good if he doesn't at least you gave it a shot. Think positive that he will call.Grrr Men! Advice Please??
    you put yourself out there..if he doesnt respond he is not interested..point blank. doesnt mean that as you mature he will not be...boys are really stupid...they always want what they cant have...so if you act like you dont want him...they usually love a challange and will start going after you....i know, why all the games, because we have animal instincts, and guys love a challange. dont be upset if he doesnt respond, there are plenty of other guys in the world and your whole life ahead of you.
    first off, do you want to be friends or are you trying to pick him up%26gt; with all the *** lookin and number droppin it sounds like you want him as a bf. either way, guys have to act cool and not look desperate so he'll call you when he thinks it's a reasonable amount of time gone by without looking like a wimp. this can feel like forever in girl time hahaha.
    If he was interested he would have said something. Now you are going to be a bet that he will get in you underwear.
    You never know! Try not to think about it and if he does call, try to be calm!
    Grr Women! Advice please??





    If you are interested in him why push him away? We men have enough friends. Why did you ask him to be friends if you are interested in him in another way?





    It is bad enough when we like a woman and they tell us they just want to be friends, it is the worst line to experience someone you are interested in saying to you once you like them. At least you saved him some face, gave the uncomfortable and demeaning line to him in the beginning, and allowed him to walk away inwardly and socially unscathed. Kudos to you...if only other women were so thoughtful from the outset.





    Now if you are really interested in him...show him your interest without mentioning the word ';friends.';





    In fact, erase it from your romantic vernacular all together- you'll be much better off.





    The odds are against a reply, if he's interested in you he will already feel he has an uphill battle ahead. So, I guess, if he contacts you that says a lot about him. Good luck with this and don't categorically devastate future romantic endeavors with the word friend- us men would appreciate it. Thanks.





    -Just noticed that your picture and name is male. I guess if you are gay and you are interested in a guy, not knowing if he's gay as well, then using ';friends'; gives strong enough a hint. You are fine if this is true.
    Patience is virtue,you just have to wait.....he myt call..





    goodluck!
    GRR,women!he might reply,just give him a chance.
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  • Cheating men. advice?

    Do married men who cheat really want anything other than sex and /or emotional companionship.. without any strings.Cheating men. advice?
    I believe that married men cheat for the same reasons that married women cheat. I believe that there can initially be a ';sex only'; attitude, but as you delve deeper into seeing one another, and it goes from a booty call to a relationship without the title, emotions begin to get involved.





    Married people cheat for numerous reasons, sometimes just sex, and sometimes for other things that are lacking at home. Fact of the matter is, they know that if they get caught, there is A LOT to lose, so even if they are emotionally involved, they aren't willing to risk their family for an affair most times. There are exceptions to the rules however.Cheating men. advice?
    Married man are not different than married women. If there is a lack of emotional/intimate connection, but they love their partner, cheating is a way to fulfill emptyness and put a temporary bandaid on troubled marriage.





    Most meople need emotional connection, closeness and fulfiment. Just sex is not enough
    they arn't thinking logically and long term at the time(they are not like women who think things through and analyse things)they are in the moment.But as soon as their marriage is threatened they stop the affair.Men,even if the wife leaves them,rarely end up with the woman they were playing around with.It's just an ego thing,it's really all about themselves.Schoolyard stuff.Having an affair is hard to end,eventually he stuffs up or the girl does and the wife finds out.They usually end up very lonely without either woman in the end.cherrs
    It;s knowing they can do it, and secretly, they want mommy to find out they were bad.; They have little self respect and hate themselves, opting for sex instead of real love at home. There is a sort of entitlement many feel, it's stupid, Selfish, emotionally immature, and destructive, and as a MAN, I feel it is inexcusable. My ex cheated on me after 19 years of marriage, and when the guy got her pregnant,m he dumped her and she came running back...but I refused anything to do with her...a smart love.





    It can be the other way around too.
    I agree with billb . .most women and men too accused their partner so much that they just go out and cheat . . .to keep your relationship or marriage good you must try different sex moves and talk to each other and it's ok to get a makeover ever now and then.
    99.9% of men who cheat do not want strings attached....However, they will tell you what you want to hear just so you keep comming back for more....If this is happening to you It may be time for you to bail out now before you get to far into the game....good luck to you...
    I cheated on my first wife because she constantly accused me of it , unjustly. I got tired of this and the constant arguing about it and decided that if I was going to do the time, I was at least going to do the crime.
    They just want something differen't. I think its all about the sex unless he makes it obvious to his wife...then he's probably is starting to take her seriouse...All those men who cheat will get it back...soon either in thise lifetime or the next.
    they want sex and sometimes they fall into a hole that they cant get out of because they get emotional.
    No, they do NOT want more! They are not going to leave their wives either...they ONLY want sex ! They ';play a game'; to keep women giving them sex...they could NOT care less for that woman!! She means only sex to him.
    sex and /or emotional companionship.. without any strings.





    Just as a parent can love more than one child or a person can love more than one friend people can be in love with more than one person at a time
    A player plays until his heart is captured by some girl and she does him like he did all the other girls and then it isn't so cool anymore.....
    Most of the time, no.
    Most are only looking for sex and no more. They want no trouble with the family they have at home. The ones that do leave the wives do because the wife finds out. And she makes him choose. If he thinks he will be better off with the mistress he leaves his wife. If he thinks the mistress is not worth him losing anything over. He promises the wife to end the affair and that he won't do it again. That's until things cool off and he meets another woman he likes. And it just repeats itself. Same goes for women that cheat.

    Leo men? advice here?

    hi can someone please tell me a little about leo men?? what are they like and what do they look for in a woman?? are there any leo guys out there??? please do not copy and paste any web sites because ive already read most of them. i just want to hear personal experiences and what they are likeLeo men? advice here?
    Hello, I'm Sagittarius. I've been with a Leo guy. From personal experience, they are so in love when they're in the moment, but unfortunately it's more like an idealistic version of you that they've fallen in love with. If that makes sense. They definitely expect applause or something whenever they ';service'; you. They need constant reminding that they are as great as they believe themselves to be. If he doesn't get it from you, he will get it somewhere else. Even if he does get it from you, he will still seek it from everyone he meets. It's funny because I've seen a Leo straight up flirt with a guy's girlfriend and have no idea why her boyfriend got so upset. It's like he wasn't trying to flirt, he was just fishing for compliments that he feels he deserves. They pretty much demand to be treated like royalty. Damn that Sun, lol. It's funny to watch, but in the girl Leo's it can make them really obnoxious to be around. I think what they look for in a woman, is someone that obviously can stroke his ego the way he likes it, and someone who takes care of herself and looks good. A Leo male wants his girl to be able to boost his own ego. He wants to feel like he's the King and she's the Queen, and that's how they look when they're together. They're very attracted to phsyical beauty and confident women. A man's Venus sign tells more about what kind of woman they're attracted to.Leo men? advice here?
    The good Leo's don't want a suck up but an equal who is not scared of standing up to him to show him her opinion. If a Leo asks her a question about him you should tell the truth even if it is bad but you should say it in such a way so he does not get angry or sad. For example give him a compliment to make it up right after. Like if he asks if you think he is too arrogant you should say yes if it's true but then say that he has a reason to be it. A Leo does not want a **** but a woman with self respect. She should be cute, funny, beautiful, passionate, nice, herself, attractive, smart, active, and loving.

    Men Advice Please.....!?

    What would cause a man to not be able to get an erection? We were ready to make love last night and he couldn't get it up. We were having very passionate foreplay for about a half an hour and it was on. I wanted him and he wanted me. Then when we was about to make love he couldn't get an erection. WTF??? What was his problem? He was so into it! Men... What could have been the problem? Very serious answers please?Men Advice Please.....!?
    How old is he? Was he drunk? There could be a lot of reasons, sometimes it just happens. Don't make a big deal about it, he's probably embarrassed.Men Advice Please.....!?
    I know you wanted men answers, but I have the same problem from time to time with my husband and we are both young. It could be a lot of things that caused him to not be able to get it up. If this is the first time, I wouldn't be too concerned, however if this has happened before and/or happens more in the future he should consider seeing a doctor. It could be anything from ED (Erectile Dysfunction) to Hypertension (High Blood Pressure).
    You are not giving enough information to take a good guess as to what is going on. What is his age? Does he have high blood pressure and is on pills for it? Is he Gay or Bi sexual? Is he really happy with women or is he just testing the waters? Is this a casual sex relationship with a short term to it or is this a meaningful relationship that has several months or years behind you?





    The answers to these questions and others could offer you a good guess as to what is happening to him physically. Good luck.
    First of all realize that it happens a least once to almost every man on earth. If you make a big deal out of it you'll exacerbate the problem. It could be a physical problem caused by medication, diabetes, or alcohol. Calm down. If you know him enough to do him you should know him enough to consider that he may be feeling pretty crappy about it. Geez, talk about pressure...
    he couldnt keep it up or get it up? if he hasnt had this problem before he is probly stressin about something or he was just tired or his troop just wasnt going to salute that night there sometimes isnt a good reason sometimes it means to much sex before the body can regain the strength and sometimes it just happens dont put to much effort into it but if it happens again talk to the doc
    I'm not a man but I can offer some answers. Some possibilities are:


    * he was drinking too much last night or on some other drug


    * he has blood pressure problems


    * he is on medication that interferes with his sexual performance


    * he was exhausted


    * he might be diabetic, which also interferes with performance
    when my husband cheated on me he said he developed that problem with the sluts, oh too bad, guilt,


    i am telling you he is married or feeling guilty about something. forget diabetes etc.
    Is he on any medication? Did he sleep around and caught an infection?


    Is he guilty about something? ( see last question ) Hope it is the first one.

    I'm into straighter men. Advice?

    I absolutely can't stand flamers, it seems like they don't have their own identity so they have to buy into one that's already set up for them. It just represents a general discord with my way of life. I want to meet more gays, but flamers are the only ones who go to the gay clubs and make their gayness apparent. What can I do to meet gay men that are still manly?I'm into straighter men. Advice?
    If you're open about your sexuality you could find them coming to you, mayhap. I will own, though, it is passing difficult finding gay men---and personally I don't like 'fabulous' ones either.I'm into straighter men. Advice?
    I think you should try Levi/Leather clubs. Those type of gay men are into S%26amp;M and are really butch. That's their persona, so you should look for clubs in your area that cater to that type of crowd.





    Most of those clubs have a strict door policy and ';flamers'; as you call them wouldn't be allowed past the door. The clubs usually have a ';no cologne, no make-up, no preppy, no fem'; rules or door policies.





    Unfortunately, even though they are butch and very MACHO they're also a gay stereotype. But they just happen to be on the other side of the pendulum. I'm sure you'll be able to find a ';real'; man there.
    Haha, I can give you my phone number--I've been told by some of my friends that I can't get a boyfriend because nobody believes me when I tell them I'm gay. Apparently, I act more ';heterosexual'; than heterosexuals.





    I'm in the same boat. I'm gay, so I like *men!* Not those fruity little gays who are feminine enough to almost be androgynous. I absolutely positively can't stomach the way they perpetuate every negative stereotype we try every single cotton-picking day to stave off.





    I think there are more ';straighter'; gay guys out there than we think, we just don't notice them because they fade into the background more. They're a lot more inconspicuous, so we think they don't exist... but like UFO's, there IS a rare sighting once in a while.





    Where exactly do you find them?





    Well, if I knew that, I wouldn't be as desperate to find a guy as I am now...
    It's hard because you run the risk of meeting a ';straighter'; looking man who is infact straight... but i can understand where you're coming from.. i'm a lesbian and wouldn't be caught dead dating a flannel wearing Mollet yielding uber dyke... but i know for a fact there are many guys out there who feel the way you do... they look and act like real men! maybe join a gym...
    Join the club, bro. Join the club!!
    Go to a gym.
    When you find out, let me know. I'd advise staying away from leather bars. Those can be pretty scary!
    The only website you'll ever need........www.craigslist.com

    MEN!! advice on your ideal?

    birthday present, stuck for ideas and it can really be anything....sex is no novelty haha so preferably an object. :)MEN!! advice on your ideal?
    I'm not a man, but meh ... :P


    Try technology : iPod, PSP. PS3, X box 360 etc.


    Or one of those experience presents, y'know like hire a speedy car for the day or go-karting.


    If you live in the UK, just raid the Argos catalogue, there are plenty of good suggestions there. If you are really stuck for ideas, give him a brand new watch :DMEN!! advice on your ideal?
    if he's in his 20's something remote controlled





    like a tank, boat, plane, car or there is this really new cool thing that goes on water, land and air,





    here is a link;





    http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/AIRHOGS-MINI-STORM鈥?/a>
    I am an avid woodworker and like to get tools. My wife got me a scroll saw for my birthday and I love it. It depends on his personality, I have many watches and that would a be lame gift to me.
    Has to be cool, we never really grow up. Stay away from perfumes and clothes. Your safe with electronics, try a games console, T.V. or if your feeling really brave, remote control monster truck!!!
    A nice watch - get the back engraved with his name
    A nice watch is always a good idea!
    If you do not know how can we tell you?
    get him some cologne i recomend '; cool water'; it smells great
    Ps3 or some other kind of gadget.


    depends on what he's into

    Men advice please?

    men why as soon as you see a girl you fancy why get a stiffey even though we ent done anything to you physically at that time, or not evn goin out with you at that timeMen advice please?
    You are so naive, you dont know anything about this world. Stop generalising, men dont 'always gets a stiffie' when we see girls. Dont flatter yourself sweetheart.Men advice please?
    you make us seem hornier than we are. we don't get a ';stiffy'; from just looking, at least not all of us. some of us need actual stimulation or at least a promise.
    I assure you not all men do.
    Men think in terms of body parts. Women think in terms of the whole package. We see something different when you see a beautiful woman. To us, its all about sex.
    That's being rather iffy.
    it's probably a psycological response to a visual stimulant, like they say your heart beats faster when you are excited or scared. it's your brain that's telling you that physically you have a postive response to seeing this girl. And if you would seriously want to start something with her be brave and say something to her.
    You are looking for men advice? Don't you mean you would like a 14 year olds advice? that is how old you must be-go back to middle school.
    sight, touch are some of factor in the reflux that trigers errection.
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  • Men advice help?

    so me and my bf have been having problems for about 2 weeks now and now we are on a break so we can think things over


    he says he still wants to be with me but thinks i don't love him and trust him and that im just scared of loosing him


    i do love him


    and i still want to get back with him


    now guys when you have been on a break what makes you want the girl back?


    please give specifics like


    is sweet/ alot of guys talk to her now/blah blah


    specifics please


    i really do love himMen advice help?
    I have taken breaks before - the only thing that would make me want to come back is if I missed her.





    So if he doesn't miss you, it's very unlikely he will come back. You can do something though - like remind him of the good times you have together. Maybe put together a scrap book of memorable events and photos. Write down on a piece of paper why you love him in a romantic way. Write down how he makes you happy. Those things worked on me.





    Good luck! I hope it works out for you. I really do because I know how painful it can be. :)Men advice help?
    Write a letter on a piece of paper. Write, “Honey tell me what will give you feel that I love you more than my life? Whatever I will do that. Sweet heart I don’t wanna lose you because I can’t live without you. Pls come and hug me with full of your love. Pls pls pls.”


    Just stand in front of him, give a cute little kiss on side of his nose and put the paper in his hand and back without saying anything.
    oh goss i hate to tell you but most guys use the break thing as a way of easing away from you. im sorry hun, all you can do is wait and see what happens. you cant make pepole love you or want you, they have to do that themselfs.


    good luck
    He's weighing his options right now and doesn't want to be serious with you. He's playing head games. I'm a guy and you know the best way to get back at us and make us want you? Don't answer phone calls or e-mails. Tell him you've been busy. It drives us nuts.
    when men break with their gf, they will start looking for new and don't care about the old one
    Quit bugging him! If he chooses you, you'll be glad it was on his own accord!
    I think I saw this one before...

    Men - advice about sex while intoxicated....?

    Recently, I had a fling with another while both of us were intoxicated. Do men have issues preforming if they have had too much to drink? No beer goggle comments...it wasn't like that.Men - advice about sex while intoxicated....?
    Real friends don't let their friends penises get drunk. Make sure the penis doesn't belch!Men - advice about sex while intoxicated....?
    men become de-sensitized with too much drink so even if they get hard it may be short lived and coming usually is an issue as well...... men, all dressed up with no place to go
    Sometimes it is difficult to get and maintain an erection when you are drunk. When you are drunk, it is hard to orgasm, because you are sorta numb down there! I like a few drinks and sex but not too much!
    yes if he has way to much there could be a performance problem
    I find there is a bell curve with drunken sex.





    Sex is ok with one or two drinks. With drinks 3-7 (for me anyway) I get more fired up and passionate, also the added benefit of being able to last longer. Drinks 8-infinity equals an inevitable decline in ability and interest.





    Find your target alcohol consumption and hit it before you hit that.
    Hey if ur drunk and have sex...you will take forever to cu..er climax
    Yep, I learned from my human sexuality class that guys struggle from impotency when they're drunk... you can't feel it as well, you don't remember how it was the next day... you know the drill.

    Men, advice please, what what you do?

    My sexual partner came over to my house for the first time and bless him, he sat in his car and text me asking me to come to the front door as he would not come in. I made it clear that he was to just come in when he got here, a little strange do you think? Any ideas please?Men, advice please, what what you do?
    I think this is quite nice.


    He would like to show you that he came here becase he wanted to see you and couldn't wait to see%26amp;talk to you again and again - not just came for sex, sex and then more sex.





    He is not using you!Men, advice please, what what you do?
    Sounds odd. He could just approach the door and ring the bell. You're expecting him, so whats the issue? Strangers ring my bell all the time, they don't feel the need to sit outside if they want to talk to me. Not many people want to talk to me though. The ones that do are in the basement, but all they ever say is ';Let me out';, ';Untie me';. They don't realise how good they got it.
    no he could b really really shy or even just reli nervous...my mates like this he needs a push and then he'll b fine! but yeah it doesnt mean that he dnt love u just thats hes shy and nerrvous...could b somin bout his past life that made him this way!!
    No, I would feel wierd just walking into someones home.
    sexual partner?not your b/friend,its just polite,he probably doesnt know where he stands
    I would say its odd but maby he was not sure what to do, to just go in, maby, maby not, I would have gone to the door and knocked but maby he just wanted to see you before he goes in as it was his first time to go to your house.
    hiya hun x X x my ex bf did that too. when he come round to my hosuethe first time, i told him to come in straight away but he didn't he stayed in his car..while it was started. He txt me and told me to come out x X x i don't know why he did it but he was quite shy..anyhow hes dumped now ! x X x

    Guys I need some advice... are men often annoyed with women who have insane sex drives?

    I have been dating this guy for almost a year and even though it is quite a casual relationship. The chemistry is amazing. So much that I am totally addicted to his loins. I spent the weekend at his place and I was like a bunny to point that I was doing him in sleep. I don't know if men can be annoyed by this because I have never been this driven.





    what do you think?Guys I need some advice... are men often annoyed with women who have insane sex drives?
    Not at first, but just ask him?.....Guys I need some advice... are men often annoyed with women who have insane sex drives?
    oddly enough I have never had that problem where I got to tell girl - your doing me too much - please find something else to do - .......





    but if you read this posting forum - apparently lots of girls are in heat and guys are faking another headache............lol
    Annoyed... No. Fascinated...Yes. Tired from too much of a good thing... definitely. Give the guy a little time to recuperate, for heaven's sake. If you give him blue-balls, you will be out of business and he will definitely be annoyed then...and in pain, besides.
    The only guys that would be annoyed by that are ones that are gay.
    The only guys that would be annoyed by that are ones that are gay.
    xD

    Do You Feel That Men Shouldn't Give Advice On Pregnancy?

    Because they don't go through the actual process?





    Sometimes I see both men and women provide totally untruthful answers to pregnancy questions. Do you feel that men have nothing to offer in the pregnancy section? I am in no way putting down men because it's nice to hear from the other side, but I am just wondering what you think. Men, please feel free to answer and give insight as to why and how you answer in the pregnancy section :)Do You Feel That Men Shouldn't Give Advice On Pregnancy?
    gosh


    how it feels and how it's going to be to birth, no I don't feel in any way qualified. General baby names and psychological questions, yes I feel we an help there.Do You Feel That Men Shouldn't Give Advice On Pregnancy?
    As for the actual physical aspect of pregnancy, they would have no experience so no, they shouldn't be giving advice on pregnancy in that respect.





    HOWEVER





    I do feel they can provide valuable input, especially to other men, if they have been through a pregnancy with their wife/gf/so. Alot of men will also take the time to do research and read up alot on pregnancy, so they could provide valuable textbook information. It's always nice to have another's opinion whether it be male or female, and like you say, there are some women out there that give horrid pregnancy advice too.
    I think if they can offer something positive then they definitely should. I know my husband has been through 3 pregnancies and would be good at giving advice to someone who needs it as he often tells me things that I am not catching or too tired and busy to realize! They can also offer their point of view on things from the partners perspective and that can also be useful to pregnant women! He may not be the one physically carrying the baby but he's just as pregnant as I am!
    For the most part I feel that women are the best source for answers on pregnancy because they actually go through the entire process from beginning to end and feel things that men have never experienced.





    On the other hand, some men get very involved in their wife's pregnancy and have a lot of insight to share. They may actually know the answer because their wife experienced that particular situation. My husband actually delivered our youngest at home and cut the umbilical cord. He was very involved in the pregnancy. If a question was about delivery, then he probably would be able to answer from experience. Other men have no clue.





    So my answer to this question would be.....it just depends on the question and the man answering it :)
    I think men can have a lot of valuable things to say when it comes to pregnancy. Obviously never having been pregnant themselves they cannot relate to that, but they can give advice from the male perspective, and plenty of them know the facts, and can at least try and sympathize with actual pregnancy.


    In fact, one of my online friends, who is TTC with his wife, is now more informed about pregnancy than his wife now, thanks to me and all my rambling, advice and from our conversations about my own pregnancies. He even researches things like implantation bleeding for her, and went on a diet and cut out coffee and alcohol when they were TTC. But on the other hand a lot of men give horrible pregnancy advice, and it's obvious they don't have any clue what-so-ever ;)
    Well, if they've experienced a pregnancy with their wife or girlfriend and was thoroughly involved and learned a lot, then I don't see why they can't offer some advice.





    Obviously, if they know nothing about it, then no, they shouldn't give advice.





    Btw.... my husband would NOT be able to offer advice on pregnancy. Yes, he's been through it with me, but he definitely was not that involved to know anything about it. lol
    I don't think they should answer in the areas they know nothing about(i.e. how it feels to have a baby inside of you, how contractions feel, the changes your breasts go through, etc.). If i'ts something as personal as that I don't think ';My wife/girlfriend said....'; will cut it. I want PERSONAL answers from those that have been there before.





    If it's something general like asking about when you can find out the gender or how far along you were when you heard the heart beat then I have no problems with that.





    I think it's great that the men in our lives take interest in what we're going through but there isn't anything like first hand experience when it comes to certain things!
    as a woman, i can tell you how pregnancy felt, detail by detail. but as a man, my husband can tell you how we pulled through it.


    both my pregnancies were difficult. my husband had to take care of me and learn the practical side of giving birth. he knows all the medications i had to take, the kinds of food i needed, the exercises i had to do, the stuff he had to pack, the room he had to prepare, etc. altho up to now, he will never understand the quirky emotional side of pregnancy, he can answer questions about the logical way of caring for the pregnant woman.


    i guess it really depends on the man. if one loves his wife so much, he will learn as much as he can about what his significant other is going through. :)
    nope i don't mind at all actually my hubby gave me plenty of advise and i didn't mind it at all of course he can't have baby's but he does know alot :) there is also another guy on here his name is seth and he always helps alot of lady's advise about pregnancy and his wife is pregnant with twins! hey i say if they can give advise i would glady take it!
    OBs are mostly men. You suppose they shouldn't give advice either? There are plenty of men who comment based on the experience of their wives or gfs. I have more of an issue with a 16 year old providing an 'answer' than a guy whose wife has had a baby.
    I think it all depends on what the question involves. Things about discharge, labor pains, and breastfeeding they have no business answering. But if it has to do with arguing with your boyfriend/husband, and other situations then I think they can have a say in things.
    well ithink some of the men give very reasonable answers or suggestions as some have wives and girl friends who have been pregnant before and as such know what they talking about. but majority of them only come here to mess about which is very childish.
    Well if they answer saying something like ';my wife experienced this and that during her pregnancy'; it could be helpful. But other than that their answers are pretty much pointless, given they aren't a doctor lol.
    I agree.





    I think men shouldn't have any say about pregnancy unless they have been there.





    Guys: Feel free to prove me wrong. I could be thinking one sidedly
    I think that it would be okay for them to say ';my wife or gf experienced this, or has told me this or that'; but other than that...NO.
    I think it is fine for men to answer here- especially on the questions about argueing with hubby/bf etc.
    I don't think they should give advice they have no idea what we are going through.
    I think it's fair because women answer questions in men's health and they don't have a ****
    Well I think it depends on the man. If he has had 9 kids with one women then perhaps I would listen to him. But being a father of one or knowing someone who has been pregnant doesn't qualify anyone to answer questions. But to have a man who is a father of 9 with 9 different women wouldn't be the person to listen to. They most likely weren't a part of all of the pregnancies.





    Men don't know what if feels like to be pregnant, they only know what we tell them. Not every pregnancy is the same. Because that mans wife or girlfriend is or was pregnant doesn't mean that they know what the answers for you are. I think this is the perfect forum to ask questions providing the right people are answering.





    No I don't think that the majority of guys know what they are talking about. Some of these guys are only answering for the points. Pick your answers wisely.





    I answer the questions on here because they are questions that I can or have at one time or another related to. I can express my opinions and hope that someone can get the best answers for the questions they ask. Not to say that I am always right but I try to give accurate answers to questions so that I don't steer anyone in the wrong direction. To the best of my abilities that is.





    Good luck. Hope I helped.

    I need men advice?

    you see i dont know much about what to do with my pubic hair, my dad died when i was like 6 and never told me much about it, now the only family around me are girls and id rather not talk to them about that.. i am 13 yrs and i feel my pubic hair is like damaged or something its lie curly and messy..should i shave it? and it is kindof growing and i have some in the begening of my di ck and well yea what should i do?I need men advice?
    Yah,





    My mom and my dad broke up when i was like 6 so i do no what you mean. Personaly what i do is i just leave it be. If you like want to talk about stuff feel free to just email me i am almost always online. Also, if you have aim my sn is celesjalee k.I need men advice?
    you are fine
    if u have uncles ask them!! but pubic hair is not suposed to be silky and beutifull. i will just be kinky and weird. Dont shave unless u know how too you migh hurt youself or cause ingrown hairs. its better to use a hair removing cream. But i would wait till your a bit older.
    Sounds like it's perfectly normal. Curly and part way up your di ck is normal. You don't need to shave it.





    Good luck





    Pete
    Pubic hair can be thick, or scanty and curly. Or scanty and straight.Some have very little or no pubic hair, while others have a forrest of growth .You could shampoo and condition your pubic hair, or shave it. some trim it down to keep it from getting caught in the legs of their under ware, while others trim it for a neat appearance, and to make the penis look longer. Yes pubic hair can become damaged just like the hair on your head. I will tell you that if you shave it, use a product called Bump Patrol to rub on after to stop the irritation from the razor, and help stop little razor bumps from occurring. It will itch at some point when growing back in, unless you keep it shaved. The Bump Patrol can be purchased at Wal-Mart for very little, and is well worth it. As you can see I use it myself when I shave. It's just a matter of taste, and you have to make that decision . It will not make your hair grow in thicker, or encourage growth. It can in time make pubic hair tend to be courser. Hope I've answered your question. Good Luck!
    Let it grow the way it is. When you get older you can trim it with a beard%26amp;moustache trimmer.
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  • Men, advice please?

    ive been dating this guy now for about two months. we're really into eachother and i was thinking about sending some sexy pictures to him of me in underwear etc. but not with my face incase someone else saw. does this kind of thing make a guy want u more and think ur sexy or does it just make them go off u and think ur a slag? thanksMen, advice please?
    it depends on what kinda guy it is. me and my gf aof 4 mounths do that all the time when im at work or shes away we just do it for fun. you can go ahead and try it to see what his response is. im sure he will love it thoMen, advice please?
    Most guys I know dig that sort of thing, myself included.
    Trust me, this would make any guy think youre extremly sexy!!
    uhmmm.....depends on your relationship.....cant help :o

    Men...advice needed!?

    me %26amp; my bf are going away for the weekend soon %26amp; i want to do something to really impress him. Any suggestions are welcome lolMen...advice needed!?
    FFM Three somes are always impressiveMen...advice needed!?
    Make it a feast. Make every thing new. Surprise him. But it all depends on how long and how well do you know him?
    Arrange a threesome with your best friend. Works for me every time!
    bring protection.
    give him a romantic strip tease
    make the first move on a lot of stuff. even some bed stuff. take some of the pressure off him for the weekend. and if he disappears for a little bit dont get all crazy on him because he was probably taking a dump. that happened to me once and she thought i was seeing another woman or something retared like that cause i was gone for an hour driving to the gas station becasue the toilet was too close to the bedroom. also give him a back massage and bring plenty of beer.
    learn how to doa Karma Sutra Massage

    Men, help me, single mom needs man advice for son!?

    Ok so this is kind of a strange question, but i have to ask...i took my son underwear shopping today, i usually buy him boxer briefs, and all is good...well i accidentally bought regular boxers instead. Problem is, when i go to get him dressed now, they bunch up when i pull his shorts/pants on. How do i fix this? I cant fit my hand all the way down to straighten em out, but i want him to be comfy. Whats the best strategy for this? He is 4.Men, help me, single mom needs man advice for son!?
    u could try rolling up the bottom of the pants or shorts until u see the boxers then pull then until they r un scrunchedMen, help me, single mom needs man advice for son!?
    start teching him how to straighten them out himself. just make it a simple instruction.
    just stay with briefs for now. hes not develloped yet so doesnt really need loose fitting boxers.
    just straighten iy up. he's only 4, malice should not be part of the discipline while the child is developing/ growing up.
    It sounds like they're too big for him. Maybe just get him some smaller ones or go back to briefs. I didn't wear boxers until i was like 13. Or straighten them out before you zip and button him up. I have to do that when i get ready for work every day.
    Personally, I like briefs during the day and boxers at night. The simple answer is to buy some boxer briefs. Otherwise he will need larger pants.
    just teach him how to fix the boxers by putting his hand down straightening them and then pulling his pants or just do it for himif he wears shorts u can straighten from the bottom
    Wow! the way you put your title i got ready to be serious! But really( i know this may sound simple) buy some boxer briefs! But i used to wear briefs at that age!
    go buy the right kind
    If they are right size there shouldn't be any problem. Best would be to change. As such Nicky will complain if he is not comfortable so you may leave it to him for a while and see.


    Good luck!
    i didnt even know they made regular boxers that small. Just get him the kind you always get him. He's 4 and cant fix them himself when he goes to use the restroom heck you can't even fix them.





    STRATEGY: GET RID OF THE BOXERS
    maybe the pants are too tight, keep then unzipped and unbuttned until their on
    only way is to reach down and unbunch. stick with briefs until he is older i guess
    when i was 4 i used to wear tighty wighties. in the future let him wear boxers with looser pants. but because his body is not proportional yet, (his legs are fat) i would recommend underwear until he is maybe 7 or 8 years old
    briefs have better support
    Mom, he's only 4. Go, straighten it. Just make sure your hand doesn't spend more time in there than is necessary.

    Ladies or men ...... advice plz?

    what is a good age to have children? Do you think you have to be financially stable first? I want a baby, but im only 20. Is that too young?Ladies or men ...... advice plz?
    when your married thats when you can start having kids!Ladies or men ...... advice plz?
    OMG yes you are MUCH too young.... Go out and live your life first, if you have a child right now, you will regret that you never got a chance to accomplish all you wanted! Travel the world, do things you've always wanted to do, discover who you are. Not to mention, being financially stable is VERY important. Children are expensive and very time consuming! Try getting a pet first, it's a good way to find out weather you are ready or not. I have a puppy and she is like a child except I'm allowed to leave her at home for a period of time. Don't do it!
    if your asking this question at 20 then your clearly not ready for kids
    i think 25 is a good age. 25 gives you a chance to finish your education and get established in your career.





    Im 35 and still looking

    What is the best advice to give a woman who wants to meet more men?

    I would not go to a bar to pick up a guy unless you want crabs. but you should try going to like a Baseball game or anything to do with sports. You could even try going to the gym there is a lot of boys there. Good Luck and be very outgoing don't wait for them to talk to you you go and talk to them.What is the best advice to give a woman who wants to meet more men?
    Ask your friends and family to introduce you to good men they know.





    1) Already know what your friends or family think of him.





    2) He knows that if he is an ***, then your friends or family will know what he did.





    Also, DON'T BE EASY!!!! Meeting more men and sleeping with them will get you quickly in the double digits without an relationships.What is the best advice to give a woman who wants to meet more men?
    Go to places you wouldn't normally go.


    Go somewhere different for lunch eat day or take up a new hobby.





    x
    Be yourself.


    But if you're too shy.


    Step out of your comfort zone.


    Try something new.
    smile and look approachable
    Go for it.
    one word- outgoing
    join sports club
    go to a bar

    Men advice /survey?

    hi i was wondering if a man has a nipple pierced does that mean he is gay?


    has any men here have a nipple pierced?


    can i get a nipple pierced without the ring showing through my shirtMen advice /survey?
    I'm straight, I used to have both pierced, and knew plenty of straight guys with them.





    You could never see a ring through a shirt. WIth a tight shirt where your nipples showed through, you might have noticed a slight 'double bump' - one from the nipple, one from the bead on the ring.Men advice /survey?
    Are you Gay and afraid of 'coming out'? Or are you straight and insecure about it and fear you'll be looked at like you're Gay? Oh, what tragedy. Anybody can get their nipple pierced, Gay or straight, just like piercing your ears, lips, tongue, d*ck, scrotum, whatever blows your skirt up. But it's true, a lot of gay men pierce their nips, especially those into the sm and leather scene. But they also ride Harleys, they're bigger and tougher than you are, and could pick out a prissy straight boy in a crowd with a nip ring trying to affirm his sexual preferences by hiding it under his t-shirt any dam day and have a great big laugh over that with their secure straight buddies at your expense. So if you're so insecure maybe you should consider waiting until you're mature enough emotionally to wear a man's badge. In the mean time, buy yourself a scooter and go play hop scotch with the girls. Nobody will think your gay then.
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  • I am dating a very shy man, I need advice from men who are also shy who can help me. I don't want to lose him?

    This man is unlike any other I have ever met. There is a definite connection. He is very shy and I understand. He has ';chickened out'; on our first 2 dates. But he feels bad and is very sincere. He says he feels bad but ';that is just what he does and how he is';. I understand. What can I do to make this easier for him and not scare him off???I am dating a very shy man, I need advice from men who are also shy who can help me. I don't want to lose him?
    just be patient with him. he gets nervous because he feels like things might be moving quickly or you're expecting it to and hes not ready yet. spend more time with him and let him get more comfortable around you

    I cant find how to draw manga bodies no matter how hard i try mostly the men and hands.got any tips or advice?

    please be very specific i can't draw any thing but eyes and hair it would be great if you could tell me anything you know.


    thank you for your help!!I cant find how to draw manga bodies no matter how hard i try mostly the men and hands.got any tips or advice?
    I used to be like u. Concentrating on drawing facial (eyes, hair, heads, etc) but then when I want to draw fullbody, I usually use reference from comic books (starting off) and later on from photographs (for natural poses). Reference is important, AND your ';guideline'; in drawing. Before u started drawing the details, try to draw a stick figure first. Well, stick figure with poses are good, but for starters just a simple stick figure will do. Then develop the ';muscle'; and then put in clothes.





    ah.. pictures might tell a thousand billions more information. try looking at these tutorials I digg out at http://www.deviantart.com





    http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/1442鈥?/a>


    http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/4461鈥?/a>


    http://www.deviantart.com/deviation/2399鈥?/a>





    Oh and there's various types of body proportion. And it is usually determined by the size of your character's head.





    SUPER DEFORMED (SD) - full height = 2 head height


    Chibi - full height = 3-4 head height


    kiddy chibi - 5 head height


    normal proportion - 6-7 head height





    u can try joining the community and try to be more active and I'm sure you'll bump into various styles which is inspirational enough to be used as reference. Practice with reference is better than just drawing without it.





    if u need any assistance, just buzz me a note at http://www.lazydragon.deviantart.com





    hope this helps =DI cant find how to draw manga bodies no matter how hard i try mostly the men and hands.got any tips or advice?
    Heh, lol. Eyes is what I CAN'T draw. The only way you can draw hands is just to keep drawing the same basic hands over and over...you'll get the hang of it.

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    You might do better to study how to draw a person realistically first. Some of the best cartoon artists are so good because they know how to draw realistic anatomy and they base their cartoon drawings on that knowledge. Look at the book Bridgeman's Complete Guide to Drawing from Life or something similar. Otherwise there are an awful lot of ';how to draw manga'; books out there, just go to the art section of a book store and you'll find like fifty different ones. Look at all of them, pick one that makes sense to you, and practice, practice, practice!
    buy a book that can help you to draw manga. drawing is a talent.
    check those tutorials, they might be helpful http://search.deviantart.com/?section=br鈥?/a>
    When you draw any objects, do not concentrate on the details to begin with.


    Observe in terms of *shapes* and *sizes*.





    Shapes like: round, oval,


    Sizes like: bigger, smaller, compare to the other shapes.





    After you finish the whole shape and outline of the object, erase with a rubber what's not so accurate. Just experiment, re-doing, and enjoying.





    When you finish with the outer shape, focus on the details.
    the 'how to draw manga' books are pretty decent, plus theres different volumes for whatever you're needing to draw :)

    Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?

    My best friend has had a lot of bad luck in relationships. She has been used and mistreated by many men over the years. She loves hard and then winds up getting beaten up or either having her heart broken by no good men.





    While we were out having lunch at our other friend's house we noticed that this one horse had his eye on her the entire day. He seemed very nice and truly interested in dating my best friend. Our other friend suggested hooking up her horse with my friend to see if they might be able to date and maybe even hit it off.





    Should my best friend date a horse or should she continue to date men that abuse her??Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?
    Well, although I don't think I'd be into animals....I get where you are coming from. Maybe she can just be friends with said horse and forget about dating for a while.





    I discussed this with my dog and he agrees....be nice to the animals, no dating of them.





    Maybe she can join a support group that has sworn off sucky, 'no good' men. I am currently keeping my eye open for such a group, I'll let you know if I find one.Is it safer just to date your farm animals instead of no good men??? Advice please!!?
    Yes, please only date farm animals so that your genes are not passed on to another generation.

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    Go for the horse ... its appendage is bigger.
    she's probably loose enough even the horse couldn't get off....
    bestiality is freaky hot!
    only if your best friend is an old horse.(and it could be)
    There was a death last year in Enumclaw Washington when a man died of a punctured colon while having sex with a horse. (Guess he was catching not pitching for that one). Anyway, I would say the farm animals are more dangerous and some of us guys treat women nicely.
    She needs to start small, maybe a dog and work her way up to the big ones.
    it's her fault,women always get what they deserve.
    well i am a good guy and hung like a hose she should come check me out
    I think that's a decision best left for your best friend. I'm sure farm animals can be just as cruel some times especially when they're no longer in heat.