Men advice - Will he change his mind?

I started going out with this guy 5 weeks ago, it started really well with flowers and sweet gestures. I then went on holiday for two weeks and since being back the dynamics of the relationship weren't quite the same, he didn't seem to be making as much effort and would be rather hot and cold with his emotions and contact with me. On Monday i decided to talk it out with him and said i thought he wasn't really putting much effort in and it seemed he could take or leave the relationship, but i wanted more. He understood completely what i meant and agreed i was really asking for much but although he 100% wanted to be with me he didn't know whether he could whole heartedly do a deep and meaningful relationship right now, you see he is just about to move out of the family home and sees his life to be full of more freedom, i said that i understood and wouldn't want to deny him that. We agreed that we were just in two different places right now, he said he didn't want to close the door on the relationship and over the next few weeks (after he has moved out) he might realise that he can offer that sort of commitment. Do i hold out for what might be a miracle, or assume that that it is now?? Men are so hard to work out!Men advice - Will he change his mind?
id say he still really wants you just his heaps stressed about this moving out of home buisness and dosnt have all the time to do everything just yet. imo i think you should wait but keep in constant contact ;PMen advice - Will he change his mind?
i feel he has been honest with you, now you be honest with yourself. tmm