Tuesday, December 22, 2009

What advice would you give to men who are angry at women?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dXkWW_q_O鈥?/a>What advice would you give to men who are angry at women?
Smoke some herb and settle down, things aren't that bad.What advice would you give to men who are angry at women?
Depends on why they're angry.





Some of those men had abusive mothers, others fear intimacy and use anger as a defense, while others are unhappy and project that onto women. I guess I would try to get him to understand that his anger towards women has nothing to do with women and all to do with general frustration and stress. I find that people (men or women) who hold resentment towards the opposite sex really do crave intimate relationships.
This leads to the third sin: anger. In a culture which exalts the self, all selves are finally in competition. Community is based on a shared past, a shared memory, shared principles which are larger than the individual self, and a shared commitment to the future. If the premise of a society is ';create your own meaning,'; no common purpose is possible for long. Competition becomes conflict, and conflict creates violence and more anger.





We need to pray for humble hearts, because humility is the beginning of sanity. We need to pray for grateful hearts, because gratitude creates joy. We need to pray for faithful hearts, because fidelity is the seed of courage. And we need to pray for repentant and forgiving hearts, because these make justice and mercy possible . . . and justice and mercy are the food for brotherhood and real community -- the world God intended for us.
Just like women: a lot of men have a very understandable particular grievance against particular women.





If a person hates an entire gender because of a few ';bad apples';... nothing I could ever say is going to say is going to change their mind. You can't reason with irrational people.
First of all, realize that women aren't really as evil as they may appear to be. They verbally lie about what they want in a man, but other than that, they're alright. They usually put up something we males call the ';b*tch shield.'; It's an insecure illusion of sassyness that they use to scare off weak nice guys. A stronger male will obviously ignore this because he's experienced and he treats women as if they're optional toys that could easily be rejected. This makes him appear of higher value than her, thus confident and attractive. He's so cool that he can't be rejected because he never puts himself in a ';rejectable'; position, he can only reject others. He only gets what he wants because he takes it without asking. That's what women REALLY want. Not the guy that will wait until she's ready. He'll appear weak and desperate.





Most people see attractive guys as ';bad guys.'; Well maybe we are. So what? Who said you had to be a good boy? No one said you couldn't join us. I always thought life wasn't fair and I'd never get a decent-looking girlfriend.





I met the perfect girl, kissed her a** for 3 months. She liked me, but I made no progress. She gave me the standard ';I'm not ready for a BF.'; Then one day she dropped her pen. I picked it up. She dropped it again, I picked it up. ';YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO DO THAT. IT'S A HUGE TURNOFF!! YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO TREAT ME LIKE ****'; she shouted. Don't get me wrong, she was a very nice girl and loved all the romantic things I had done before, but when it came down to it, she just didn't want a weak boyfriend. So that's when I realized how the game REALLY worked. Even the most emotionally scarred woman WILL NOT accept a weak man. Anyway, my life has never been better since I switched to the ';dark side.';





What I recommend is to simply learn how the game works. Basically I've come up with one rule to live life by: NEVER show weakness under any circumstances. This applies to anything from dating to even chatting with your male buddies. You can never let anyone walk over you because it psychologically lowers your value. You can tell yourself you're better than that person, but deep inside it will scar you with a permanent hatred towards society. You have to fake confidence until it becomes a part of you- and it eventually will. Some call it being insecure, but who cares. It works. Eventually it'll be securely imbedded into your own personality.





Once you rescript your life, you'll have women running up to you with open legs.
Tracey seems to get on with normal men ok.





But to men that are angry at women - I would suggest actually getting to know some, especially some that are different to those they might normally come into contact with.
As with anyone that hates an entire group of people, I would tell them to look within themselves and figure out why they hate those people, what happened in their lives to make them hate an entire group of people, and to seek professional help.
I would and in fact do tell them that women as a gender are not at fault. And to take their anger and do something useful with it.
There's nothing you can say or do.
Anger management. They need to find out why they have anger towards women. Some deep-seated issue, etc.
only that not all woman are bad and that there are a few of us out here that are actually worth something and not to let certain women bring him down.
Get therapy and anger management classes.


Theyll be a whole lot happier.
Instead of giving out advice I would like to listen.
I can help them. My procedure is perfect for curing anger issues.
WIERDOS!!!!!!

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