Do married men who cheat really want anything other than sex and /or emotional companionship.. without any strings.Cheating men. advice?
I believe that married men cheat for the same reasons that married women cheat. I believe that there can initially be a ';sex only'; attitude, but as you delve deeper into seeing one another, and it goes from a booty call to a relationship without the title, emotions begin to get involved.
Married people cheat for numerous reasons, sometimes just sex, and sometimes for other things that are lacking at home. Fact of the matter is, they know that if they get caught, there is A LOT to lose, so even if they are emotionally involved, they aren't willing to risk their family for an affair most times. There are exceptions to the rules however.Cheating men. advice?
Married man are not different than married women. If there is a lack of emotional/intimate connection, but they love their partner, cheating is a way to fulfill emptyness and put a temporary bandaid on troubled marriage.
Most meople need emotional connection, closeness and fulfiment. Just sex is not enough
they arn't thinking logically and long term at the time(they are not like women who think things through and analyse things)they are in the moment.But as soon as their marriage is threatened they stop the affair.Men,even if the wife leaves them,rarely end up with the woman they were playing around with.It's just an ego thing,it's really all about themselves.Schoolyard stuff.Having an affair is hard to end,eventually he stuffs up or the girl does and the wife finds out.They usually end up very lonely without either woman in the end.cherrs
It;s knowing they can do it, and secretly, they want mommy to find out they were bad.; They have little self respect and hate themselves, opting for sex instead of real love at home. There is a sort of entitlement many feel, it's stupid, Selfish, emotionally immature, and destructive, and as a MAN, I feel it is inexcusable. My ex cheated on me after 19 years of marriage, and when the guy got her pregnant,m he dumped her and she came running back...but I refused anything to do with her...a smart love.
It can be the other way around too.
I agree with billb . .most women and men too accused their partner so much that they just go out and cheat . . .to keep your relationship or marriage good you must try different sex moves and talk to each other and it's ok to get a makeover ever now and then.
99.9% of men who cheat do not want strings attached....However, they will tell you what you want to hear just so you keep comming back for more....If this is happening to you It may be time for you to bail out now before you get to far into the game....good luck to you...
I cheated on my first wife because she constantly accused me of it , unjustly. I got tired of this and the constant arguing about it and decided that if I was going to do the time, I was at least going to do the crime.
They just want something differen't. I think its all about the sex unless he makes it obvious to his wife...then he's probably is starting to take her seriouse...All those men who cheat will get it back...soon either in thise lifetime or the next.
they want sex and sometimes they fall into a hole that they cant get out of because they get emotional.
No, they do NOT want more! They are not going to leave their wives either...they ONLY want sex ! They ';play a game'; to keep women giving them sex...they could NOT care less for that woman!! She means only sex to him.
sex and /or emotional companionship.. without any strings.
Just as a parent can love more than one child or a person can love more than one friend people can be in love with more than one person at a time
A player plays until his heart is captured by some girl and she does him like he did all the other girls and then it isn't so cool anymore.....
Most of the time, no.
Most are only looking for sex and no more. They want no trouble with the family they have at home. The ones that do leave the wives do because the wife finds out. And she makes him choose. If he thinks he will be better off with the mistress he leaves his wife. If he thinks the mistress is not worth him losing anything over. He promises the wife to end the affair and that he won't do it again. That's until things cool off and he meets another woman he likes. And it just repeats itself. Same goes for women that cheat.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
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