In need of men advice?

Well, here i am 27 and divorced single for 5 years which is great by all means, but I really haven't dated much because of what i have been through and my outlook on men has become tainted. i am very picky in whom i chose to date which isn't all that bad, right? When it comes down to men, I seem to find the older men and the freakyish men are attracted to me and I can't figure out for the life of me why that is. I'm 5'5 with dishwated blonde hair and blue eyes, fit too. When i find a guy that i enjoy being with they seem to find excuses to putting me off or seem to not be into me. i am a professional artist working in a big city, i can be intimidating at most times and very shy. I guess i need to nkow where i'm going wrong in dating? Is it my attitude because of what i have been through? Oh and i'm not very affectionate either and i could care less about sex because i have cists that keep coming back and are very painful. Is it the sex factor or affectionate part too?In need of men advice?
I think it is a combination of the sex factor and the past relationship. Guys now a days wants to now they are wanted by there significant other. We love to have sex. We love the attention. Maybe if you keep trying to find the right guy it will happen. My wife found me and she has indemetriousous, which are the cist that keeps coming back. This is very painful for her to have sex with me. She has had several surgeries to try to keep the pain down. I myself am very happy with her and have respected the fact that this is painful. I'm a very patient guy who will wait until she is ready for me. There are other things you can do to keep him happy too. I would suggest keep trying to find the right guy who will understand the situation, of course meeting him half way to explain your situation helps too. Good luck and I wish you well on your health issue.In need of men advice?
Being picky is not bad unless you are using that as an excuse to not get close to someone. Often, when women put up barriers they call it being picky. It sounds to me like part of the problem is that your not very affectionate. Affection is something that most people look for in a potential partner. It is how you show someone you love them vs just saying it.





Think about what you just wrote.. you have an attitude because of what you had just been through, your not affectionate and you dislike sex. The fact that your a professional is very nice for you, but most men won't care about your profession. I would say it's not any one of those items but the combination of all three.
Well, you named several things which makes think this is a joke post.
heed the captains advice -you are -picky-intimidating -and when you have sex its painful for you and no joy to the man plus you are not affectionate at all -lady if you were my date -make you walk the plank !! either change yours ways or be a nun
I don't even know you but after reading this I wouldn't date you either.


Trying smiling a lot and being positive with everyone. Oh, and don't mention the cysts to anyone anymore.
I'm a guy and I feel the same with women. It's a no win. Good luck.
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