Wondering about the world of men, advice or help?

Okay so heres the question I've been broken up with this guy that I was seeing for 4 years for almost a year now and I haven't really been out in the dating world of late. Im not really sure how to go about approaching a guy or even how to find a guy. ( the last one kinda just fell into my lap) Advice?Wondering about the world of men, advice or help?
What you have to do is get out there and mingle.Don't worry if your on the make. some guy will bite There's a smorgosbord out there just waiting for you to nibbleWondering about the world of men, advice or help?
Knowing your age, Melissa, might help for receiving suggestions as that is an important consideration. I do think you beyond your teens tho...





I have no advice that would help, I am sure...well...unless you want to meet me, that is...WINK ! I am sure you will find many offers before your question expires...





I would like to say that singles bars, laundramats and church are no places that have proven successful...as well as singles clubs. These matchmaker organizations put on a big speal but are not what they are cracked up to be and hardly worth paying for either.





It seems today that the computer shows more opportunity for meeting someone special than other programs. The advantage on the internet is that you have more to choose from and an opportunity to not be involved until you feel certain for wanting to.





Match.com, a pay site seems to have the most successful program according to statistics. Nonetheless, as like anything on the internet, you must be careful and keep good notes because there are a lot of weirdos out there.





If you go online to trashy places then you will find trashy people...that's the way it is, Melissa.





I could sugggest that one of the nicest chatrooms in Yahoo is the room titled ';Cultures';. Naturally, you will find some weirdos there, but there also are quite a few nice folks there as well. Beyond that, I would think most chat rooms a bit too far over the edge with gamers and players.





You may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince, Melissa...yet, your prince is out there someplace and you may have to tolerate some dislikes before finding him as you will never find him if you are behind closed doors.





I would think also that gyms would be a great place to pick and choose as well...





With regards to how you would approach a guy...well, just ';hesitate and smile'; as that's all it takes. A quality guy will see your smile before your assets, I assure you. Just be yourself and not flirtacious with not dressing to capture either. A decent guy looking will be looking for quality that's real, not put on. I am sure you are looking for the very same.





Good luck, Melissa, and don't give up...just be careful and don't settle for anyone less than your deam guy.