I feel really unattractive ...is this putting him off me? men advice please?

i have gained some weight recently and i have always been self consious about myself, howver now im a sexual relationship i find it hard to just strip and feel comfortable. because i have gained weight i think him looking at me naked will put him off, however is it that or the fact that i hide my body that puts him off me?


i don't know what to do


if i was more body confident would he get more turned on. because he loves me, and a girl being confident is important or is it that seeing me naked would make him think different?I feel really unattractive ...is this putting him off me? men advice please?
Women have this tenaciously-held notion that we men only like women who are stick thin like the 16 year old models that they see in virtually every ad in women's fashion magazines.





Completely untrue. That notion is absolutely false. Wrong.





The truth is that we like women of all body types - tall, short, skinny, not so skinny, etc. We like them all. What they all have in common is that they are women, and that is what we like - not their shape or size. We just don't care.





Trust me on this point. I know I am right. I am a straight guy that has been around the block a few times.





So, you gained some weight? Big deal. I am very sure it is a far bigger deal in your mind than his.





Honestly? He probably hasn't even noticed, and if he has noticed, he doesn't care. You still have plenty of T %26amp; A right? That is what really matters to us guys.





Don't hide your body. There is no need to. He doesn't care. Trust me.I feel really unattractive ...is this putting him off me? men advice please?
Mary Beth, has he told you to put your clothes back on? If not you need to appreciate he loves you for you. Stop being so hard on yourself and start to enjoy life.
Lose weight. It'll make both of you happier.
lol well alot of people feel that way don't be scared