MEN Advice Especially, How can I reconcile our differences??

My friend is really upset with me because I felt initially he came on too strong and being completely understanding I told him I wanted to take things slow. He continued to try to woo me showing a sensitive side I couldnt acknowledge as genuine as its best to get to know people and I discredited what he said esp. when he said love. Hasn't been that long though I'm willing to give him a chance.





Seems he might like the drama because he isn't trying to work anything out, everytime I call he's upset from a past conversation...





He wants things his way while there is only so much negative one can take. I'm definitely leaving it alone however is there anything I can say so we can at the least be friends?MEN Advice Especially, How can I reconcile our differences??
Sounds like a tough situation to be in. To me it would seem like coming on strong is the only way he knows how. He may not understand that not all women appreciate such a trait, and therefore becomes upset because he's confused. Since you already told him you'd like to take it slow and that didn't work out to well, maybe you should provide an ultimatum. Take it slow or you have to call the relationship off completely. While this might hurt him at first, it'll bring him to the realization that if he wants even the slightest chance of a relationship he'll settle for being a friend, and not a potential date. I hope this helped.





Shane.