Thursday, December 31, 2009

Men Advice Please.....!?

What would cause a man to not be able to get an erection? We were ready to make love last night and he couldn't get it up. We were having very passionate foreplay for about a half an hour and it was on. I wanted him and he wanted me. Then when we was about to make love he couldn't get an erection. WTF??? What was his problem? He was so into it! Men... What could have been the problem? Very serious answers please?Men Advice Please.....!?
How old is he? Was he drunk? There could be a lot of reasons, sometimes it just happens. Don't make a big deal about it, he's probably embarrassed.Men Advice Please.....!?
I know you wanted men answers, but I have the same problem from time to time with my husband and we are both young. It could be a lot of things that caused him to not be able to get it up. If this is the first time, I wouldn't be too concerned, however if this has happened before and/or happens more in the future he should consider seeing a doctor. It could be anything from ED (Erectile Dysfunction) to Hypertension (High Blood Pressure).
You are not giving enough information to take a good guess as to what is going on. What is his age? Does he have high blood pressure and is on pills for it? Is he Gay or Bi sexual? Is he really happy with women or is he just testing the waters? Is this a casual sex relationship with a short term to it or is this a meaningful relationship that has several months or years behind you?





The answers to these questions and others could offer you a good guess as to what is happening to him physically. Good luck.
First of all realize that it happens a least once to almost every man on earth. If you make a big deal out of it you'll exacerbate the problem. It could be a physical problem caused by medication, diabetes, or alcohol. Calm down. If you know him enough to do him you should know him enough to consider that he may be feeling pretty crappy about it. Geez, talk about pressure...
he couldnt keep it up or get it up? if he hasnt had this problem before he is probly stressin about something or he was just tired or his troop just wasnt going to salute that night there sometimes isnt a good reason sometimes it means to much sex before the body can regain the strength and sometimes it just happens dont put to much effort into it but if it happens again talk to the doc
I'm not a man but I can offer some answers. Some possibilities are:


* he was drinking too much last night or on some other drug


* he has blood pressure problems


* he is on medication that interferes with his sexual performance


* he was exhausted


* he might be diabetic, which also interferes with performance
when my husband cheated on me he said he developed that problem with the sluts, oh too bad, guilt,


i am telling you he is married or feeling guilty about something. forget diabetes etc.
Is he on any medication? Did he sleep around and caught an infection?


Is he guilty about something? ( see last question ) Hope it is the first one.

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