I am in my early twenties and there is this man who is about 30 years older then me that i have this total crush on...I want to try and make a move on him but im not really sure of how because im not sure what his reaction will be to such a young girl as myself htting on him - as i wouldn't know if his very conservative.What would be the best move on my part so i don't make a fool of myself..thanks :)Help..Older men advice?
He would probably be very, excited that such a young woman, would hit on him. He might just take you up on it, especially if he is single. Go for it but go slowly. Ask him to go out for coffee and such, then by talking with him, you'll get an idea if he is interested.Help..Older men advice?
My fiance and I have a 28 year age difference between us and we have friends with 30 + years between them. Make sure, first of all, that he isn't married. If he's not, then dont worry and just ask him if he would like to go for coffee or dinner with you. Don't stress over the age difference. He is a person just like you. Neither of you are numbers. Just like with any two people who are getting to know each other there will be differences. Some having to do with the age difference and some not. Time will tell if you two are compatable. If he doesn't want to go to dinner then he will say something. You shouldn't feel your making a fool of yourself, your just asking another individual out. Good luck.
just be honest to yourself and him,sometimes it's best that u leave somethings closed and not open it and sometimes it's good to ask questions.but i do understand that he's much older than you are and you dont want to look like a fool.but my advice is to have a conversation and see where his head is at.test him
Depends on a lot of things.
If he's your married political science professor or next door neighbor, for example, you might want to think twice about it.
its not a question of you being made a fool of....but he will be seen that way for playing with someone so young......I m not saying that it cant work....I m saying that its unlikely to work out : )
Every approach is a risk of rejection. I say give it a try.
Most men that much older than you would probably like it!
first does he has any interest in you at all? does he even know you exist? you might want to evaluate thoese things first. Then if there iscommuincation then just start being nice and nicer.
30 years older?
Whoa...
That's just way too much of age gap but I suppose it's about live and let live..
That being said, I think all you have to say is ';hi, I'm interested.';
Nothing special. Behave as you were at the same age.
L@@king for a daddy..huh?
Thursday, December 31, 2009
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