Thursday, December 31, 2009

Men advice! please help!?

I met this guy 5 months ago in a petrol station, we started bumping into each other every morning and i ended up giving him my number. We spoke everyday on the phone at least twice and txt through the day as well, thing was i wasn't looking for a relationship because i Had just come out of one and so had he but he was quite persistent in meeting, we met maybe 3 times in this time outwith the petrol station :) and we got on so well were just so alike so recently we've been meeting every night and thing were going great or so i thought. He told me he loved me and i feel the exact same. But... he told me today that whilst we were just talking on the phone and meeting rarely he slept with his ex again and another random girl. I feel kinda hurt and betrayed and resent him for this? am i being selfish? he was asking to meet me everyday and telling me how much he liked me but i just wanted to take things slow that's why i didn't meet all the time. I dint know what to do?? do i show him the door or try forget it? help!!!Men advice! please help!?
Forget it. Men crave sex i am soz but men need it more than women.





Dont rush into a relationship with him until you are sure he doesnt like his ex or this other girl.





Just make sure it is genuin befor you commit yourself.





He isnt the only guy out there remember that but again this isnt a reason to show him the door.





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talk to him, tell him that you want to move slowly with him. but he cant be doin that **** to you. and i would somewhat resent him for that, show him that it hurt you because you wouldnt do that to him. i think give him a chance though will do good.
You are not being selfish, if he was into you he should not have strayed. He was in the wrong.
Look forget about him-he said he loved you-yet he slept with two other girls!


Hes using you so dont get attached!


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so you still make love with him, not to bright are you? he works during the day and makes dates with the customers, i think he is doing very well for himself getting paid and getting laid. at least if not none, he is honest to you. one good thing about him, faith and trust are not on his agenda. stop making love to the creep, he tunes up too many cars. one day you will be in clinic with something you do not want. bye bye is what you say, no contacts at all. lose the gas man and move up to a better station to bring the car in for a special treat. try the high test next time. sorry, but he is a sh-t head.
DUDE THATS SO GAY STICK WITH THE LADIES
Well at least he was honest and told u wat he has done.... its not like u guys were official anyways u guys were just dating.... yea of course i would be hurt too no doubt cuz the feelings are there but u cannot say that he cheated on u because u guys arent or werent a couple....i'd say give him a chance and see how it goes being a COUPLE...well things should def be different.....he should respect u more..so give it a try like i said as a couple
sounds like he only wanted to put his nozzle in your tank





id forget him and drive on if i were you
I'm proud of u for not getting ahead of yourself ... however, this guy seems like a swinger. he wants a birthday party with all of the fixings and it's not even his birthday. I know u were pretty gung ho about this one but usually when your instincts tell you to take it slow or not right now... LISTEN. you just got out of a relationship and guys are different from girls in that area. give yourself time to heal and just let him go ... when another comes around and wants to get with you just tell him you're not looking for a relationship.
A man worth keeping wouldn't have done that. He was persistent in trying to meet you because he wanted to get some. You said no, so he got it elsewhere. I would move on, other fish in the sea.

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