The irony of advice to single ladies, versus single men. Why is this so ?

Whenever a guy asks a question where he can't get a girlfriend, typically the first response would be


';you standards are too high, you care too much about looks';





Yet if a woman asks the same question, about getting a boyfriend;


the responses are typically





';don't settle, don't lower your standards, the right man will come';





So my question is for the other single guys out there, why should we settle for a woman we don't really like in the first place, since women generally won't do the same likewise ?The irony of advice to single ladies, versus single men. Why is this so ?
typically, you see men with too-high standards, and women with too low standards. This is due to the fact that generally, women experience lower self esteem than men. Although it is not always true, that women have a more difficult time maintaining a positive self image is widely accepted as fact.The irony of advice to single ladies, versus single men. Why is this so ?
I totally agree with you and it doesnt matter if your a male or female..whatever you feel you deserve then you do and i didnt really know this was going on but yeah it shoud be fair on both genders.
definitely


but i think its more the fact that when men say they haven't had a gf, they are more or less looking to just hook up with a girl for a bit and nothing serious


not that all guys do it


with girls, they are more serious about their relationships generally and therefore will wait for someone of their standard so they can have a good relationship


of course, that's generally.. not everyone is like that
The truth of the matter is that women are far more likely to settle. I have dated quite a few guys that I just wasn't that into because I didn't want to be to picky or I was lonely or insecure, even when deep down I knew I wanted someone I had more chemistry with. Not a lot of guys would attempt starting a real relationship with a girl if he felt he could do better. He might sleep with her though.
Don't ever lower ur standards. Ur game must b all wrong or ur not old enough 2 understand. Just go w/ur 1st gut instinct %26amp; don't listen 2 what anybody else tells u. If ur blow away then that's a good sign. if u have 2 ask urself if this chick/guy is all wrong then go elsewhere. When ur blown away on ur 1st date then that's a keeper. Oh, and ofcourse the 1st kiss has 2 b awesome. The personality %26amp; conversation has 2 b awesome also.

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