Saturday, December 19, 2009

Any husbands out there... What advice would you give young men today regarding relationships with women?

This is for a questionnaire I'm doing for school and I need some input from any married men out there... if you can, please also include your age in your answer.Any husbands out there... What advice would you give young men today regarding relationships with women?
treat her like a respectable human being because you would want her to treat you the same. 38. Any husbands out there... What advice would you give young men today regarding relationships with women?
We can't help it if we fall in love with a woman who has a different libido to ours. Furthermore, as you age your sexual preferences, fantasies and turn ons change.. they develop... sometimes they develop together and sometimes they develop apart. It isn't your fault either way. It is nobody's fault.. it just is. Eventually your pot, if left on simmer, will boil over (or boil dry)... so a succesful marriage takes compromise in all aspects of your life. The longer you are married the more you both compromise. Ultimately one of you probably cheats in those circumstances where your sexual aspirations have developed apart. It might take a month.. or 30 years... But that's where you really gotta get hold of your emotions and think... why do I feel like this... the answer is that you feel jeolous. Jeolousy is a useless harmful emotion that will tear apart a relationship. It comes from you thinking that you possess your wife.. you have ownership over her emotions or her genitals... That isn't a fact. She remains independent of you and chooses to stay with you for whatever reasons. If there is one piece of information that I would share it is to rid yourself of jeolousy.





Sex isn't your right and fidelity isn't even important. Many couples have relationships that are more open than you might realise possible. But you gotta work on your relationship the whole time. Take control of your jeolousy and never take your lover for granted. She may not be there tomorrow if you do.





47 - still married after 23 years and I love my wife.
be understandable... do not promise.. if u promise then fulfill ur promise

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