Men and Ladies, advice on his actions or lack there of?

Guy says he loves you, when things are great his is the best EVER.





When you in an argument or something non-positive, he seems to give up.





I think he should fight a little harder for us, instead of waiting on me to take the first step to finding a resolution.





Advice. (please don't post BS answers)Men and Ladies, advice on his actions or lack there of?
He's a guy, that's it. Although he sounds like he avoids conflict, and that's not good.





Also, if that's the way he is, don't expect him to ';fight harder for us';, that's your expectaction, and if he isn't like that, then you're not going to change it and expecting him to do so is just going to make him push further out.Men and Ladies, advice on his actions or lack there of?
Women are naturally the emotional leaders/providers, and men think more with logic.





So, if you're upset, and he can't deduce it with logic or make perfect mathematical sense of it, he's lost and waits for you to take the reins.





Sometimes just saying, ';you hurt me. I refuse to talk to you until you can get your head straight'; works. Or play his game, pretend everythings fine and ignore him a little. It will likely get under his skin.
the most important factor in telling you the strength of your relationship is how well things go when they are at their worst...... if you are doing everything then you need to let him know.. without being confrontational, that you are tired of doing all the work in saving the relationship. dont tell him he needs to change or fix this or that because noboody should ever have to change for anybody unless they do it by themself..... if he makes a change in his behavior then that proves he cares, however if things continue like they are now, then its time for you to move on. You dont deserve to be put out all the time or to do all of the work. thats not healthy for either of you.
Ask him when you are having a disagreement if the realtionship is worth the effort to keep it up, or if he would rather leave it where it is and move on.


He should fight like he's fighting for his life if he really wants this realtionship to last, or maybe he just doens't know. Tell him how you feel.
Yes. It takes two in a relationship. You really need to talk to him about that. It takes compromise to avoid arguing.
he is a loser and is probably cheating or just wanted you for self gradification. you should lose the loser
seems like he wants you to make up first


so it's like he is doing you a favor by


letting you come back to him





this way it is like it's your fault
what are you fighting over?





are you fighting over the same thing (type of thing)?