Torn between two men advice needed as soon as possible?

I am confused. I have been dating this guy for a few months %26amp; really like him, he's even close to my age. He's met my kids %26amp; they all like each other. We don't get to see each other than much, he works when I'm not. He's never been married %26amp; kind of likes his single life, but is wanting to settle down, maybe. I really don't want to rush into anything, I've made that mistake too many times before. On the weekends, I hang out with my friends. Through them I have met a very quite but nice guy. He has asked me to dinner %26amp; I said yes; we haven't made it yet. He's about ten years older than me, married before %26amp; no kids. He's met all of my kids %26amp; adores them. At first, I thought ok, were just going to be good friends, but the more I'm around him I see him opening up %26amp; see possibilities. I've been going through alot of things lately %26amp; this doesn't help. My friends don't help much. I need advice ASAP.Torn between two men advice needed as soon as possible?
Making good choices in life can take even years. Why don`t give yourself little more time? A good friend makes a great boyfriend a great bf makes a wonderful husband, and all that takes more time than we expect sometimes and time is the main entrance in the menu. So why rush?...That`s my experience.Torn between two men advice needed as soon as possible?
think about both of them and see what qualities you like out of both and see which one you like better and choose the other one. trust if you choose the one that you like better then the relationship will not go good
just go with the flow and dont rush. go with the guy that you can see yourself happy with and who you have a connection with.
I have been through this exact thing (only i do not have kids). I did go on that dinner with the new guy and then lunch and then another dinner and then I realised I did like my current boyfriend better and told that new guy I will never meet him again because I like to stay with my guy. He accepted it but kept in touch via email once a month for a year. Me and my boyfriend broke up in the end due to something completely different and unrelated.


As you can guess, me and the new guy got together and I got to know him better and now we are an item for over two years. I am still very good friend with my ex.


So my advice would be - do not force anything. Your heart will tell you.
Write up a list of pros and cons... Even make the list as trivial as who has better eyes and what not....... Then make your decision based on who has those most pros/less cons.