A question for the men, Sorry women but I need a mans advice on this one?

I have been talking to this guy for a few months and about three weeks ago we went from being friends to Friends with benefits after we slept together. He said he wanted this to be an ongoing thing and we both decided that we didnt want a relationship at this point in our lives because he is busy with work and school, and im still trying to work on me and my past relationship issues. We dont have each others cell numbers and only communicate thru IMs, he messages me everyday even if it is just to say hi and ask how I am doing. He even sends me a message if he knows he may not be able to talk to me that day like when he goes on a fishing trip and even still he usually messages me when he gets home. He tells me how much he wants to see me but then never does, he always says he has to work late, or study, or has something else that he cant possibly get out of. We only slept together the one time and even though he tells me it was awesome and cant wait until we do it again and until im (insert sexual act here lol) Im just not sure if he only does this so he doesnt hurt my feelings by saying he isnt into me. I have a tendancy to over analyze everthing which is what I am doing now but cant help it. So guys what do you think? Is he really just busy or is this a sweet way of being rejected? Would a man take the time out of his day everyday for the last month to message me and tell me all this stuff just to not hurt my feelings? I know this sounds crazy but I need to know. Also do you think that something that starts as Friends with benefits can evolve into a relationship or do you think if he was ready he would see me as to easy and go look for a new girl to start something meaningful?A question for the men, Sorry women but I need a mans advice on this one?
yeah you're overthinking it





just let it flow naturally. he must really like you to be saying all these things. and yes, some things that start as friends with benefits can evolve into relationships, eventually down the line.A question for the men, Sorry women but I need a mans advice on this one?
he's probably busy don't think about it too much