Having a tough time dealing with break up, Need men advice.?

I'm 19 and my father was never around much and neither was my mom, I basicly have been alone all my life until a couple of years ago when I met this certain girl that took all the loneliness away. It was all so great at first. then the second year we were together things started getting rough and I was controlling and jealous and didn't take care of her like I should have and made her feel like I didn't love her because I didn't really know how to show her that I loved her. but inside I really did love her. I treated her bad and I know it... I don't need to hear about that anymore.





This girl really took care of me and made me happy when I was down and even though I was nothing she made me feel like I was something. she broke up with me 7 months ago and we continued to talk and keep things going like we were together for the whole 7 months on and off. until last week and now she wont talk to me at all. I love her to death and just dont think I can live without her. she filled the gap in my life of not having a mother. =( I really dont ever see myself forgetting her.





she is my first love and I'm her first love. she says she feels nothing for me now. and will not talk to me at all. will I ever meet someone else that will treat me as good as her? Did you guys have a situation like this and then met someone that was better and that you loved again?





I've learned my lessons but I just can't take losing her. it hurts so bad.Having a tough time dealing with break up, Need men advice.?
Who knows what the future holds. But until then, you need to move on. You learned a valuable lesson. It's normal to miss the person you break-up with....and it's normal to think that you'll never love someone like that again.....BUT....then you see the next girl...you start to get that strange feeling again...love, excitement etc.....and now your dating someone new.....you will fall in love again....get out.....start living....enjoy yourself.....you have suffered enough.....but unfortunately, YES it's normal to hurt soooo bad......but you'll find love again....WE have all been there!Having a tough time dealing with break up, Need men advice.?
We learn from our mistakes. The only ones that don't learn are the ones that refuse to correct their mistakes and continue living as if they don't care at all what happens. I wish you the best.
Listen, I'm very sorry to hear that you've lost someone that you love.





But this is where you need to make a decision to learn from your past mistakes. To me, love is something that you have to work for and earn with someone who you work well with. There are plenty of people out there you can get along with, but it's love when both of you are willing to work together and keep things going. Love is hard work!





And you will love again. I know you don't want to lose her and it hurts because she's become such a comfort to you. You need to learn to love yourself before you can really love someone else. You are your best relationship. Take some time for yourself and wait.





Now that you know what you did wrong, you won't let it happen again..right?





The best of luck.
Dude, Time heals all wounds. I know that it seems hard to believe at this time but its true. I also had a High school sweet heart. We were together for 4 years and then broke up. I felt horrible. But I met another woman had kids and moved on. I acually divorced my wife 4 years ago and low and behold me and my highschool sweetheart got back together and we are now married, So just look up there are women out there just dont dwell on the past