You are not the only one, but just know what you are getting into to. Why are you in such a hurry? You are young and you have your entire life ahead of you. If they cared for you, they would wait until you reach a favorable age. Enjoy your teenage years to the fullest.I am attracted to older men..advice?
Finish your study first. Forget the guys and concentrate on your education.
actually, I'm 16 and I tend to like guys usually in the ages of 18-24. Theres nothing wrong with it. Every guy that I have dated in that age group was a great person and never forced me to do anything ever.
Personally, I think i'm attracted to the older guys because I have more of the similar lifestyle they do.
I think that if the 2 people really genually like eachother it shouldn't matter what their ages are. If you get along and treat eachother right then go for it babe! Guys that age are fun to hang out with, I know I wouldn't trade the ones I hang out with for the world.
Believe me, you are not the only one. My husband is 24 years older than me. I've always liked older guys too. When I was 16 my bf was 21. My advice.. If you like older guys, it could be a plus. They are more mature. It would suck if you liked guys your age. Usually they just want to get in ur pants and party. Hah.. Anyway, now the married man! Honey, that is a completely different issue. STAY AWAY from married men. No matter what their age is.. However, if u like older men, go with it. It's great to know what you like. That is a blessing. As for the statutory rape thing.. Date someone undercover.. don't tell a soul what u do sexually.. till your legal that is.. Have Fun!
well usually girls like boys that are older, but i don't think you should get wioth a guy that is married cause you won't be his priority...probably he'll have sex with you and that's what you'll get from him.
find a guy that is older and that isn't married. that's my advice :)
good luck!
you're not the only one - I was the same way. I decided to date someone my own age though. I am now married to someone older- he's 10 years older but I waited till college to explore the older guy thing.
im sure you are not the only one but by dating these guys they can get into tons of trouble there whole life could be ruined you are underage and you are protected by your parents and by the law. start looking somewhere else your causing trouble.
i doubt you the only one.... but all you could really do for now is not date, its way too risky....
but why do you prefer older men? bc of their maturity? surely you can find a guy one or two years older then you are that is mature for his age etc....
but also, you should be very carefull with older gys bc they could easily take advantage of you
gd luck all the best
You're nowhere near the only one.
And depending what state you live in, you might be above the age of consent already.
girl, you are dangerous for these guys. Don't you know that they are just lookin for a ****? Why would you want to risk getting them in trouble with the law? And why would you want to put yourself through that kind of heart ache? Stick with guys your own age and better yet...stick with your girlfriends, finish school and make something good of yourself. Good Luck
Girl stick with guys around your own age, they will take advantage of you and that isn't what you or any girl wants. Come on what does a girl your age need with someone in their 20's
Im just like that but i prefer guys that are only 3 to 4 years older than me nothing over 21 for now. why don't you look for a guy that's 19 or something.
You're definitely not the only one! I'm the same way. Don't feel bad about it. It's nothing to be ashamed of. That's just the way it is. Although, be careful. Don't mess with married men!
I like older men to, but wait until you are 18 before you start dating those older men. You would hate for them to be imprisoned by messing around with a minor. The best thing is to wait. Find some one in your age range for now.
I promise it is what is best for you and potential jail bait.
Why does the word ';date'; mean sex? And you mean statutory. It doesnt matter if you ARE the only one.. or if you are not. Who do you think you are to think about getting some poor guy to go to jail just because you ';dated'; him. Give the boys a break gurl! Stop f.... around ..find something else thats NICE to do. If he is flirting with you tell your mom or dad and they will take care of it for you IF they are good parents. By the way , since you think you are such a lil hotty, you might want to try to dress like you ARE a nice gurl instead of some lil trashy person who does not care who gets hurt..not even herself or a baby of you should get preggers. If you are that willing to break up marriages or other peoples lives or whatever, then maybe you ought to think about how you and your dad do or do not get along. Gurls with daddys who love them and honor their moms do not have daughters that act like you. Think about it. Find some other way to get and give the affection you crave little gurl. Do not wreck other people . Oh..and by the way.. dating does not mean sex.
Liking older guys is not necessarily a problem. Liking married men is. You can date older men, you just can't have sex with them. As you become older, dating men older than yourself will become less of a problem.
its fine age is nothing but a number, i mean im 16 and my boyfriend is 21 dont feel bad youre not the only one. like the only way they can get in trouble for rape is they have sex with you and someone finds out and decides to be a ***** about it and reports it. but its fine though youre not the only one.
You are not alone.
But no married guys please!!! This can only end in heartbrake.
im generally the same way,
and i know what you mean
becuase of feeling that way i feel like i am/and also others would think im a dirty whore
im also 16 go figure
but you cant help who you like
just like gays can't
older guys is what your more drawn to for some reason and thats okay
as long as you dont go for guys around your dads age or older your good
and if you cant wait to have sex with them
then noone has to find out,
its not like you'd go around telling everyone %26gt;.%26gt; %26lt;.%26lt; %26gt;.%26gt;
and how would the charges be proven with no proof of such actions ever happening.*?
you should DEFFINATLEY stay away from married guys though
even if he's the only one right now and you like it
it IS wrong becuase hes married and even worse if he has children of his own
all youll end up doing is breaking up a family
and hurting EVERYONE in it
i dont think you need to go through something like that,
and they dont deserve to either..
you ever want to talk or anything jus email me or add my msn at
penguinlove.17at hotmail
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Ur not the only one. I use to be like dat too. My first bf was when i was 12 or 13 and my bf was 19.I'm 18 now and my bf is 24. It'z natural 4 gurlz to wanna date older guyz.
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