I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years last april because I wasn't getting the commitment I needed from him. He moved down south to pursue his career and ';grow'; as a person. He loves me but was not ready for a commitment because of where he stood in his life. In the mean time (like 2 days later) I met a guy and we started dating because we got along well. Its been almost a year since I've been dating him and I have been feeling really suffocated and annoyed lately. We have talked about space and stuff like that and him getting a hobby. He seems to want to do anything to keep our relationship. I feel comfortable in this relationship and happy sometimes . The ex boyfriend has been emailnig and calling, saying that he loves me and he is ready to commit and cares for me and i so want to pursue it, but also don't want to give up what I have? Its scary...I need ADVICE!!!I have a problem. I need men advice?
Only you can make this decision. Do you really care for guy #2 or was he something to fill the time with until #1 needed you again? Sorry to be so blunt. When it comes to matters of the heart you really need to look inside yourself. What is going to make you happy? Remember it sounds like both guys care about you. Which one do you really care for? Which one makes you happy and fulfilled? I know you don't want to hurt anyone but if you don't make the decision, you will be hurting yourself. Take your time and think about it carefully before you do anything. I will be praying for you. Good luck.I have a problem. I need men advice?
Stay with the second guy if you get back together with the first guy he might leave you all alone again.
well. ur first guy has his chance.. it ended. if your happy with current guy. stay there. its your ex's loss.
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