My bf and I have been going out for over 3 years.. we fought on Sunday (today's thursday) about sth really silly, but turned huge.. We both got really mad at each other and he hung up first, then I called back and I hung up.. (i know this is really immature)
So, I tried calling him back the next day to apologize because I don't want to drag this for so long.. he kept saying he's busy and will call back.. so i waited until the next day.. and called him back, he didn't pick up and left a voice message. He never called back and now I've been waiting for 4 days and he still hasn't called / emailed / texted..
I don't know what i should do.. should I call him back again? ignore it? but it's been 4 days...
I need men advice, should I call him back again?
Don't call him back. If the man wants you he will call you back. Remember that bad things happen for great things to happen in the future. If your relationship ends because of this sill immature move then it obviously wasn't meant to be anyways. He will eventually come around, I would wait more and if you don't get a call from him soon, I would open my eyes for someone new.I need men advice, should I call him back again?
Yeah, stop hounding the guy, that won't help matters any way.
If he's this upset with you, he may need time to get over it, if he ever does.
Once you have spoken in anger, there is no easy way to take back the hurt. Time may do it, but that's up to him, not you.
All you can do, is to hope, he can forgive and forget.
Quit kissing his a*^%26amp;, Show him you can go along with your life without him it will burn his a(*, what I see and I am a 43 year old man and I mean total man and what I see is he is out to try to fish the pond and if any little pecker head does that to my daughter (11) I will give her the same advice...OK
he should at least return your call, at this point he is playing the silent game, be the bigger person and let him call you. if you keep calling him you might seem desperate and all he wants is attention. Just wait it out, and if he doesn't call back then move forward and I'm pretty sure you will find someone that will make you happy =).
Women.. mine can drive me crazy like that. Anyway lets get to business:
I was in a long distance relation for 6 years. We rarely fought when we were distant, but when we had a fight and did not apologize then things can got ugly. One time I had to travel and beg for mercy, she finally accepted my apology. I am still married to that woman after 14 years.
If he wanted to talk to you, he would've called. Calling him is going to make you look desperate. Just leave it alone.... don't chase him.
call him and apologize, tell him you love him and you miss him, and then wait for him to call you back.
Ignore him, he'll come around. why act so desperate. if he wants to talk to you,he will call.
apologize to him once, and he will call you back sooner then later.
Friday, January 8, 2010
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