Question for men.... advice wanted?

I'm in grad school and I've been seeing this guy for maybe 2 months now.. everything is going well, and he really likes spending time w/ me. However,. he has not yet asked me to be his girlfriend. Does anyone have any advice on what to do. Do you think he will but it will just take more time??





We already see movies and act exactly like Boyfriend/girlfriend.. I'm just sick of introducing him to people as my ';friend';.. He even gets upset when other guys show interest in my, so I know he doesn't want me dating other people... why doesn't he just say something about it already.. when ever the topic comes up he changes the subject.Question for men.... advice wanted?
hahaha. he already thinks that your his girlfriend. guys dont think you need to actually ask that question. you can just assume. im almost 100 percent sure that you guys are a coupleQuestion for men.... advice wanted?
Some guys are bashful or timid in this area %26amp; don't want to appear over aggressive. Some guys are afraid of rejection %26amp; wouldn't know how to handle the situation well if he were rejected. It is not written in stone anywhere that says you can't ask HIM to be your very special friend - or - fiancee. If he's worth it - take the plunge.
he's scared to take that step...he's scared of the possibility of rejection....he definitely likes you, and would most likely want that as well....





Make it easy on the guy...you may have to bring it up...I would say first trying to kiss or something small like that....





If he does, than thats a green light...but wait a littl ewhile after that kiss/es, that might be enough to give him the confidence to ask you out





If not, then you might just have to make that step too....if you care enough for the guy by then
Did somebody tell you only boys are allowed to ask out girls, and not vice versa? Maybe he's thinking the same about you and waiting for you to make the first move...
my advice is to try dating and relationships,,, girls hang out in here too... your not gonna get a bias opinion from guys only...





he doesn't want a relationship right now,,, if he's not comfortable with it he's just not...
he could be like my hubby was...he never actually ';asked me to be his girl'; he just assumed we were together exclusivevely.
he wants all the benefits without the committment. Give it another four months. And if your status isn't upgraded, it's time to move on.
What to do...? I guess it depends on what you ';want';. I'd start with that first. Guys in general don't think too far ahead in the same terms women do. It sounds like you have a pretty good relationship as it is... you spend time together, I assume you enjoy that time? Ask yourself if that is ok for now. You're in school, do you really want a serious ';boyfriend';. Because either one of two things will happen.... one you can bring up the subject and he will ';bolt'; because he isn't ready and you will have lost a perfectly good relationship. Or two, you bring it up and he sees what he might be missing and things get serious.





I wouldn't take the jealous thing too far... it usually doesn't mean any more than that... he doesn't want you to see anyone else. If you want the same freedom, than maybe thats how you should phrase it. Guys are just a lot less complicated than you think. He's probably not going nearly as deep as you are unless you push him that ';deep';. Just be ready for it to go either way.