Friday, January 8, 2010

Calling all men ;) advice appreciated?

so i have a new bf and everything is going really amazing. i've met his family, spent the night at his house, met his friends and all that good stuff. he also talks about future events like his bros wedding in aug of 2010 and how he wants me to go with him or his vacation next year that he wants me to be a part of. he also talks about kids and how he'd treat his wife and take good care of her (implying it might be me kind of, he pulled me close and hugged me tight while talking about his future wife, or in his words 'my baby') and things like that, also he even has mentioned living together. i feel like i am quickly falling in love with him.





also last night when we were hanging out talking he said something like 'i love you.. (silence) for that' it was like he accidentally said i love you and tried to downplay it by following it up with 'for that'. this is the second time that 'i love you' has slipped out of his mouth now and both times after he said it he stopped and followed up with something like that. also we have never gotten sexual because i told him i do not get intimate unless im in a committed relationship and he told me there was no rush, and that that's not what he's after. he told me he trusts me too..





he always wants to see me, before work, on my lunch break if possible and after work. he always wants to see me no matter how tired he is. he spends his days off with me, treats me to things all the time and is just so sweet to me.





He stares into my eyes for long periods of time and it gives me the most intense feeling. the look in his eyes makes me just melt. he tells me he thinks about me all day at work or no matter where he is. he said when he's not with me he always misses me for some reason. he calls and texts me throughout the day and he's always on time and does what he says he's going to do.





could he be falling in love?


guys answers especially appreciated :)


thank yoooouuuuCalling all men ;) advice appreciated?
Nope hunni hes lulling you into a false sense of security..(most men do this especially if they are adept at conning sensitive caring women emotionally..very few men get emotionally involved with a woman...they dont seem to have that part switched on.) so that you feel safe with him and he can get as much sex as he needs..a man that talks like that so soon..isnt serious...ive heard that often enough to know this..and to realise men who talk like this know its what women want to hear..and they do it to get something they want..which is the usual...they really dont mean any of it..if hes with you in a year and still talking like this then id have some hope..but give it a few months and he will be gone when hes had his fix...and got tired of sex with you.....im sorry to be blunt..but this is a classic tactic of most men....to get a woman emotionally attacthed so that getting sex is easier ..and less effort on his part....after all he'd rather get you to give it to him willingly than force you?Calling all men ;) advice appreciated?
ive been in love before,if your young girls/guys are gonna come and go thats just how it is,dont go into to quick or you WILL get hurt,bad.If hes too clingy for you or theres something not going right you should let him know,i personally just love bieng single :)
He forsurely is. Most of the signs are there. What more can I say? He loves you. The question is do you love him?
i think he has fallen for you all the way hold on to him
ya i seems you are.

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