Male/Men advice please xX?

If you went out with someone a few times then decided it wouldn't be a good idea to take things further, how would you act around the girl?


I mean, if it were me with a guy, I would be polite to him, but not overly friendly incase I gave him the wrong message or make him hope something might happen in the future.





If you give someone an excuse not to be with them, but then are still very friendly, tell them your problems, and even sometimes give them that look (you know - stare into their eyes a bit longer than you should) why would you do that??!!


Is it because you genuinely like them?


Or is it an ego thing - you want them to like you but don't want to commit?


Thanks xXMale/Men advice please xX?
I would gently let the guy know that you're just not interested in dating him at the moment, but that you didn't hate the time you dated (because that would completely ruin his confidence) just let him know you enjoy his company, but you're just interested in being friends at the moment. Be polite, but be honest.


I'm not sure why someone would give them 'that look', maybe it was unintentional, or maybe they just wanted to see your reaction to make sure you're ok. But of course you're still going to be friendly, just because you don't wanna date doesn't mean you two can't be friends!


Depending on the person it could be an ego thing, I can't really tell when I don't know the person!


Hope this helps sweetie, best of luck :)