Help me to get him back ( want men advice)?

my story short is that im in love with some one from another country in EU, and he was diagnosed with Motor Nerve Disease three months ago (no one knows execpt for ME and his Mom and Dad), i loved him before i knew and even more after , but he was like : who is crazy enough to be with someone who would die evantually ,at that stage i didnt tell him that i loved him darely ,our sexuall life was good but we only met now and then cuz of our work , one evening he told me that one of his (male frinds )told him that he cant marry me cuz im not virgin ( we both staying at a country were sex before marriage is considred a sin) and he should marry a virgin ..etc , and that if he would be or seen with me he would reuin my reputation and other things he hidden from me , any way we talked about it and for me all that is non-sense and they r only jealouse , i any one of them got the approtonity to do it he would right away , but still that didnt convince him appriantlly as he just stopped txting , calling or emailing me


i cant blame him as he thought that as for my best not knowing that hurts me and that i cant stay without him , i called him up and we set a date we talked and made love he was so happy and in that time i confsed few things like id want him more than anything in this world went around how much a care for him that it could be more than just caring , he was travelling to his country two dayz later and he called me from the airport we talked for a while and my tongue just slipped I LOVE U words before we hang , he said he would email me right after he gets there safe ,


after two days he didnt send anything and i had a dinner invitation from my colleague and his GF , so i sent an email to him telling him about it , he answered back with the next: Ofcourse! i know how u feel about me but that is not good! i care for u but we can only have fun together and thats where our relationship ends! and i guess u know why .





i got really emotional and send him back an email telling him that i love him more every day and his sickness wont stop my feeling and that i want to be with him in health and sickness , if not then i should leave him and wished him luck .


now i feel like i was so fast answering him with that , i dont want to leave him i want to be with him i know what his illness like and whats gonna happen to him and i want ot be with him





please help me out ........???Help me to get him back ( want men advice)?
you mean MOTOR-NEURON DISEASE???





you gonna be able to watch his body fail while his mind remains active???





gonna be able to take 24hr care of him???





somehow i doubt that very much... best to just be his friend and support him...Help me to get him back ( want men advice)?
my boyfriend has a lung disease called cystic fibrosis which means he is going to die at approximately 30 years old. just because they are going to die doesn't mean they don't deserve happiness. everyone will die eventually, just because we KNOW when they are going to die doesn't make it any different. that's like saying 'i don't want to see you anymore because i know you are going to get hit by a bus when you are thirty.'


Try and tell him that.
His illness isn't the only thing stopping him. Under normal circumstances I'd say he's playing you. Using you when you are around and actively seeking someone else when you're not. This is just my opinion though, not a fact.





I can say positively though that telling him he'll lose you is probably for the best. If he actually loves you back, he'll take that into heavy consideration.
I know why


He doesn't want to be with you because he doesn't want you to se him get weaker and weaker.





That is the only reason i guess.





Just be his friend and it will be ok


And on emore thing.


Talk talk talk


Talking is the best way to resolve any problem


I had to find that out the hard way


take care


Dave