If you went out with someone a few times then decided it wouldn't be a good idea to take things further, how would you act around the girl?
I mean, if it were me with a guy, I would be polite to him, but not overly friendly incase I gave him the wrong message or make him hope something might happen in the future.
If you give someone an excuse not to be with them, but then are still very friendly, tell them your problems, and even sometimes give them that look (you know - stare into their eyes a bit longer than you should) why would you do that??!!
Is it because you genuinely like them?
Or is it an ego thing - you want them to like you but don't want to commit?
Thanks xXMale/Men advice please xX?
I would gently let the guy know that you're just not interested in dating him at the moment, but that you didn't hate the time you dated (because that would completely ruin his confidence) just let him know you enjoy his company, but you're just interested in being friends at the moment. Be polite, but be honest.
I'm not sure why someone would give them 'that look', maybe it was unintentional, or maybe they just wanted to see your reaction to make sure you're ok. But of course you're still going to be friendly, just because you don't wanna date doesn't mean you two can't be friends!
Depending on the person it could be an ego thing, I can't really tell when I don't know the person!
Hope this helps sweetie, best of luck :)
Friday, January 8, 2010
I need a mans advice! Do men need to be re insured of love?
Ok this is the deal. My boyfriend who is also the father of my 19 month old son lives in America and I am currently in Germany. We have been through really rough times in the past, and are trying to find a way to be together. I know i love him a lot and that he cared for me but we both have insecurity issues. Since we cant really show that we love each other because of the distance all we have is communication. But we still dont really show our feelings. Should i tell him i love him more often? Do men need this re insurance once in a while, and they get all bubbly inside like us women.lol..Or do they not need to hear it and it is just an uncomfortable act for them.. Maybe this is to general of an aspect, just wanted to know some opinions..I need a mans advice! Do men need to be re insured of love?
Yes. Men liked to be liked also. And being reassured (not re-insured) tells them again that they're liked and that makes them feel better.
So do it. Send those letters. But always be truthful, don't be fake. Hopefully he'll send back letters, because your reassurance made him feel bettter about you, and so he reassures you that he likes you as much as he has in th past.I need a mans advice! Do men need to be re insured of love?
well,...sometimes we (man) need that,...but sometimes both of u must have time to meet each other...and talk eyes meet eyes.
Coz, all u need is truthfullness, including your boyfriend indeed.
remember to trust each other.
showing your love in long distance is really tough...but why don't u try to have some times to meet each other?
You should absolutely tell your boyfriend that you love him whenever it's appropriate, just be wary of overdoing it and smothering the guy (difficult, since you're so far apart).
yes say it more often if u already do.... n being a men myself i wud say u shud meet him up once in a while so he wudn't hook up wif another gal in U.S
yes, everyone does.
I as a man am going to say sometimes i need to be told i am loved and if i love the girl back it makes me feel all good inside so tell him you love him as much as you want
Yes. Men liked to be liked also. And being reassured (not re-insured) tells them again that they're liked and that makes them feel better.
So do it. Send those letters. But always be truthful, don't be fake. Hopefully he'll send back letters, because your reassurance made him feel bettter about you, and so he reassures you that he likes you as much as he has in th past.I need a mans advice! Do men need to be re insured of love?
well,...sometimes we (man) need that,...but sometimes both of u must have time to meet each other...and talk eyes meet eyes.
Coz, all u need is truthfullness, including your boyfriend indeed.
remember to trust each other.
showing your love in long distance is really tough...but why don't u try to have some times to meet each other?
You should absolutely tell your boyfriend that you love him whenever it's appropriate, just be wary of overdoing it and smothering the guy (difficult, since you're so far apart).
yes say it more often if u already do.... n being a men myself i wud say u shud meet him up once in a while so he wudn't hook up wif another gal in U.S
yes, everyone does.
I as a man am going to say sometimes i need to be told i am loved and if i love the girl back it makes me feel all good inside so tell him you love him as much as you want
Women to Men Ratio: Advice on how to do the best J B?
I love job blows!! They are the best!Women to Men Ratio: Advice on how to do the best J B?
Take some time, mix it up. Move slow and deep. Fast and Furious. Don't be afraid to bring your friends along.Women to Men Ratio: Advice on how to do the best J B?
Oh, I love Jelly Bellies! The root beer and black licorice are my two favorite flavors.
a lawn chair, a tazer, and some duct tape. Yeah, you get the picture.
Oh the Jumpin' Bunny dance?
Just bob your head up and down.
I'm not really a scotch kind of guy.
Ask me about vodka instead.
J B?
Huh??
Huh?
Take some time, mix it up. Move slow and deep. Fast and Furious. Don't be afraid to bring your friends along.Women to Men Ratio: Advice on how to do the best J B?
Oh, I love Jelly Bellies! The root beer and black licorice are my two favorite flavors.
a lawn chair, a tazer, and some duct tape. Yeah, you get the picture.
Oh the Jumpin' Bunny dance?
Just bob your head up and down.
I'm not really a scotch kind of guy.
Ask me about vodka instead.
J B?
Huh??
Huh?
Men advice! is he lying?
my boyfriend of 2 years just broke up with me 2 days after i moved away for university he was crying th emorning i left and said how much he loved me and will miss me and then a few days later he said he loved me as a friend and he did keep texting me as if we were just friends asking me if i looked hot when i went out that night before and if i picked up etc i said to him i want him out of my life he hurt me so much do u think he will change is mind if i give him space? im thinking i want to move home anyway because i hate my university here anyway! we were fighting a lot before i left i think because i was leaving but it just made me realise how stupid it was and how moving away was so stupid! he use to say he loved me so much it hurts what should i do! when i saw him a week ago he started touching me and staring at me and then stopped and said he cant do it its not love its just lust do u think i should give him space please help!Men advice! is he lying?
You are no doubt pretty smart or you wouldn't be at university. This all sounds like a complete mess. Walk away, and heal your wounds. A better life is near at hand.
You are no doubt pretty smart or you wouldn't be at university. This all sounds like a complete mess. Walk away, and heal your wounds. A better life is near at hand.
MEN ADVICE PLEASE! I think I may be going bald but im not sure, could it just be temporary? Wats ur experience?
PLEASE READ THIS IM DESPERATE--its not as long as it looks
! Heres the story (short version). I lost a lot of weight like 45 lbs in 4 months by starving myself and excercising like crazy. well, after i lost the weight for about another 6 months i continued to eat very little to maintain my skinnyness. but then i noticed my hair started thinning. So after doing some research i learned that losing a crazy amount of weight in a very short time can be very unhelty and cauyse hair to thin badly. So i started earting normally again. from what i read if its telegon effluvium the hir should start coming back after about 4 - 6 months after the cause of the thinning has ceased.
well, its been like 7 months of eating normally again and being at a healthy 140 lbs (im 5 8 and 27 years old). but the thing is it still keeps falling out! everytime i take a showe it comes out like cazy. during the middle of the day if i just gently grab at my hair i can easily pull our 3 -4 strands per pull. its so thin on just the top part now that it is noticable to others. i was adopted so i never knew whether or not baldness ran in the family. but how can this happen to me?? i mean isnt that an unusual age to start balding?? 27 and never ANY indication whatsoever that i was ever going to go bald. up to the age all the way to 26 its always been so full and thick i would of never guessed balding would ever be a part of my life, at least not until i got really old.
is there still a chance that this could just be temporary? or am i just kidding myself? did it just coincidentally happen after i lost all the weight and i mistakenly attirbuted it to that poor diet from the weight loss? its not thinning on the sides or back just the very top part. im very sad about this. like i said there was never any indication that i would ever go bald for 26 years of having beautiful thick hair. id gel it and style it it was very nice . and its just happening so fast! its like just 10 months ago my head of hair loked completely different. its very depressing. does it usually happen this fast??am i doomed? im only 27!!MEN ADVICE PLEASE! I think I may be going bald but im not sure, could it just be temporary? Wats ur experience?
Hair loss like this is very common in people who crash diet. the reason for this is a serious lack of vitamins and proteins. Even after you stop dieting heavily it takes a very long time for the body to recover and the timescales you are talking about are not unusual.
Your hair will grow back but very slowly. the best way to help it is with hair supplements and a healthy diet like you are eating now.MEN ADVICE PLEASE! I think I may be going bald but im not sure, could it just be temporary? Wats ur experience?
hair loss can be caused by many different reasons! Find out the actual cause of hair loss! There are many causes of loss of hair such as stress, poor nutrition ,medications, thyroid dysfunctions, illness, fungal infections ,hormonal problems, to mention a few. but anyway you can always try and get real results.
year ago I suffered from hair loss and since hair loss is hereditary my dad suffered from it too and I started trying everything you can imagine to stop my hair loss. the things that really worked for me was:
1) Vitamin A - an anti-oxidant which promotes healthy production of sebum in the scalp;
2) Vitamin E stimulates circulation. Good blood circulation in the scalp is important in keeping hair follicles productive. The 'B' vitamins contribute to melanin, which gives hair its healthy color and also stimulates blood circulation;
3) massage is also beneficial. Massage stimulates circulation. As already noted, good circulation in the scalp keeps hair follicles active. Experts suggest a few minutes of daily head massage by hand. Circulation through massage may be improved by using a few drops of lavender or bay essential oil in an almond or sesame oil base with massage;
4) Try rubbing your scalp with garlic juice, Onion Juice or Ginger Juice(you can either of one out of three, Do not mix any of two or three);
5) also you should use some herbal treatment.in that case Provillus is a good product that helps prevent hair loss and it is an FDA approved product. I think it is very important!
It worked and still works for me!
I do not know if any pharmacies carry Provillus but I do know that you should purchase it directly from the manufacturer and read more about the product here http://www.provillus.com/?aid=749165
good luck!
! Heres the story (short version). I lost a lot of weight like 45 lbs in 4 months by starving myself and excercising like crazy. well, after i lost the weight for about another 6 months i continued to eat very little to maintain my skinnyness. but then i noticed my hair started thinning. So after doing some research i learned that losing a crazy amount of weight in a very short time can be very unhelty and cauyse hair to thin badly. So i started earting normally again. from what i read if its telegon effluvium the hir should start coming back after about 4 - 6 months after the cause of the thinning has ceased.
well, its been like 7 months of eating normally again and being at a healthy 140 lbs (im 5 8 and 27 years old). but the thing is it still keeps falling out! everytime i take a showe it comes out like cazy. during the middle of the day if i just gently grab at my hair i can easily pull our 3 -4 strands per pull. its so thin on just the top part now that it is noticable to others. i was adopted so i never knew whether or not baldness ran in the family. but how can this happen to me?? i mean isnt that an unusual age to start balding?? 27 and never ANY indication whatsoever that i was ever going to go bald. up to the age all the way to 26 its always been so full and thick i would of never guessed balding would ever be a part of my life, at least not until i got really old.
is there still a chance that this could just be temporary? or am i just kidding myself? did it just coincidentally happen after i lost all the weight and i mistakenly attirbuted it to that poor diet from the weight loss? its not thinning on the sides or back just the very top part. im very sad about this. like i said there was never any indication that i would ever go bald for 26 years of having beautiful thick hair. id gel it and style it it was very nice . and its just happening so fast! its like just 10 months ago my head of hair loked completely different. its very depressing. does it usually happen this fast??am i doomed? im only 27!!MEN ADVICE PLEASE! I think I may be going bald but im not sure, could it just be temporary? Wats ur experience?
Hair loss like this is very common in people who crash diet. the reason for this is a serious lack of vitamins and proteins. Even after you stop dieting heavily it takes a very long time for the body to recover and the timescales you are talking about are not unusual.
Your hair will grow back but very slowly. the best way to help it is with hair supplements and a healthy diet like you are eating now.MEN ADVICE PLEASE! I think I may be going bald but im not sure, could it just be temporary? Wats ur experience?
hair loss can be caused by many different reasons! Find out the actual cause of hair loss! There are many causes of loss of hair such as stress, poor nutrition ,medications, thyroid dysfunctions, illness, fungal infections ,hormonal problems, to mention a few. but anyway you can always try and get real results.
year ago I suffered from hair loss and since hair loss is hereditary my dad suffered from it too and I started trying everything you can imagine to stop my hair loss. the things that really worked for me was:
1) Vitamin A - an anti-oxidant which promotes healthy production of sebum in the scalp;
2) Vitamin E stimulates circulation. Good blood circulation in the scalp is important in keeping hair follicles productive. The 'B' vitamins contribute to melanin, which gives hair its healthy color and also stimulates blood circulation;
3) massage is also beneficial. Massage stimulates circulation. As already noted, good circulation in the scalp keeps hair follicles active. Experts suggest a few minutes of daily head massage by hand. Circulation through massage may be improved by using a few drops of lavender or bay essential oil in an almond or sesame oil base with massage;
4) Try rubbing your scalp with garlic juice, Onion Juice or Ginger Juice(you can either of one out of three, Do not mix any of two or three);
5) also you should use some herbal treatment.in that case Provillus is a good product that helps prevent hair loss and it is an FDA approved product. I think it is very important!
It worked and still works for me!
I do not know if any pharmacies carry Provillus but I do know that you should purchase it directly from the manufacturer and read more about the product here http://www.provillus.com/?aid=749165
good luck!
Men - advice please :-)?
Now, me being a woman and all emotional I may be getting the wrong idea about this bloke i know, and I know you guys don't think about relationships with as much thought and emotion as us girls (no offence). I am very attracted to this man for a while now, but I have no idea how he feels. I just can't make him out. He'll always seek me out when he sees me, will sit near me, talk to me, gives me quite a bit of attention over the other woman around us (I've never seen him go to anyone else for a chat like he will with me). But of course he may just be a really nice guy who has also found he has a bit in common with me and just likes to chat a lot. Any advice - would a bloke waste time just chatting with me if he didn't like me at all? He's never ever said or done anything to indicate he is attracted, never flirted, etc. Might be gay, i really don't know. But I have no intention of letting him know my feelings in case i make a fool of myself, and i'd hate to lose a friend.Men - advice please :-)?
Talk to him. Just ask a question. As a guy (and quite a typical aussie one too) subtle hints dont work because we dont look for them. A bloke apreciates knowing exactly where he stands and if you were to ask him out for drinks and then tell him you really like him....then the next step is his. If he really is a good friend thats interested or if he is just wanting friendship he will tell you...I'd bet almost anything on it.Men - advice please :-)?
Dude totally what he said
gotta agree with the first two answers
my opinion is that he wants you but not sure how you feel about him
Keep chatting with him, ask him to meet you for lunch, somethime. That would be a good start, then go from there.
When you meet someone for lunch, it not like a date, just like friends, getting together, let me know
tell him that u have an odd feelig 4 some reason that u think he likes u.ask him if he does.if u dont want to look stupid go somewhere that really is around.dont worry ull figure this outfemale mask
Talk to him. Just ask a question. As a guy (and quite a typical aussie one too) subtle hints dont work because we dont look for them. A bloke apreciates knowing exactly where he stands and if you were to ask him out for drinks and then tell him you really like him....then the next step is his. If he really is a good friend thats interested or if he is just wanting friendship he will tell you...I'd bet almost anything on it.Men - advice please :-)?
Dude totally what he said
gotta agree with the first two answers
my opinion is that he wants you but not sure how you feel about him
Keep chatting with him, ask him to meet you for lunch, somethime. That would be a good start, then go from there.
When you meet someone for lunch, it not like a date, just like friends, getting together, let me know
tell him that u have an odd feelig 4 some reason that u think he likes u.ask him if he does.if u dont want to look stupid go somewhere that really is around.dont worry ull figure this out
MEN? Advice? I'm a 29 year old female with the hugesssst crush on my 41 year old neighbor.?
Oh man, it's killing me inside!! Him and I are really close and spend a lot of time together. We have a total brother/sister type relationship... we always talk crap to eachother and laugh and cut jokes, pull pranks.. I've lived next door to him for about 9 months and in that time period he's never had a woman over and I've never hooked up with any guys (although he talks about women allllll the time and does seem a tad bit interested in me dating guys and stuff).
Anyway, I've had this crush on him for a long time and I just don't know what to do about it. I cannot tell him!! What do I do?
Today he asked me to go on a hike with him and his dog, so I grabbed my dog and we left. He climbed this huge boulder and his dog chased him up there - he than asked me if I was going to see how his dog got up there, so I took it as, ';Aren't you coming up?'; Anyway, we both sat on this rock and there was this incredible view and it drives me crazy to be in positions like this with him.
How can I let him know I think he's awesome without coming out and telling him?MEN? Advice? I'm a 29 year old female with the hugesssst crush on my 41 year old neighbor.?
Why Oh Why Can't something like this happen to me!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna be my neighbor???
Anyway, I've had this crush on him for a long time and I just don't know what to do about it. I cannot tell him!! What do I do?
Today he asked me to go on a hike with him and his dog, so I grabbed my dog and we left. He climbed this huge boulder and his dog chased him up there - he than asked me if I was going to see how his dog got up there, so I took it as, ';Aren't you coming up?'; Anyway, we both sat on this rock and there was this incredible view and it drives me crazy to be in positions like this with him.
How can I let him know I think he's awesome without coming out and telling him?MEN? Advice? I'm a 29 year old female with the hugesssst crush on my 41 year old neighbor.?
Why Oh Why Can't something like this happen to me!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna be my neighbor???
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